Well it sounds like you have an idea of what good detailing is about and proper washing and drying techniques. Its obvious in your paint "terminology"
Orange peel can only be corrected by wet sanding and again that takes someone who knows what they are doing.
I would check out the person in NOVA, maybe see if he can provide references. Pics don't always show the whole picture. Talk to his references and ask how the paint held up after numerous washes and under halogen lighting.(These show the swirls and spider webbing the best) No good detailer should have to use a glaze unless the paint is to thin to polish any further. Glazes only hide defects momentarily.