Pedophiles are just the average guy,it seems

gretchen

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You're the one assuming that those movies were filled with women that looked like children.
Real slow. The movies that are marketed as being about child/adult relations are usually featuring actresses that resemble the subject matter. $hit,am I typing in English?
 

mAlice

professional daydreamer
You're the one assuming that those movies were filled with women that looked like children.
IF you're trying to say that the porn industry does not have it's fair share of women who look to young to be having sex, I'm just going to have to call :bs:. 'cuz I've seen a little porn in my lifetime, too.
AND, if you have never had the pop-up ads on your computer advertizing those young, nubile entertainers, you're surfing must be pretty limited.
 

vraiblonde

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Monello and I are watching The Americans, just started with the pilot last night. Phillip was at the mall with his 13 year old daughter and some adult male douchebag started giving her the business. Phillip went over and confronted the guy, who made a rude remark and walked off. It happens that Phillip is a highly trained undercover KGB agent, so he went to the guy's house later and beat the ever loving #### out of him.

:smile:

Sorry, this thread just made me think about that.

Anyway, you defensive guilty men aside, it's not out of the ordinary to find young girls attractive. I think many of them are cute as buttons and can see how an adult man would be attracted. What counts is what you do with it, whether you dig up pics of them to jerk off over, or solicit them for sex, or whether you are able to simply admire them from afar and keep your dirty old man hands to yourself.

It would be honest for guys to say, "Hell yeah, she's a cutie pie. Too bad she's only 15." What is dishonest is to insist that you're not looking at all.
 

gretchen

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Do I know it exists? Yes, but thanks to the OP I now know the titles - I'd never actually bothered to surf the menu. So I was a bt put off by the question of are all men just pedohiles are pedophiles just the average guy. I would also like to inform Vria that the reason most of those titles were about females, it's probably hard to get an 18 year old male to look 12. But based on what you hear/see in the news it would appear that there are plenty of pedophiles that are attracted to boys - they just have to trade their junk in a different market.


I am also gong to avoid shopping at Giant. I would not want to be accused of staring at her child - I mean when I shop I search the aisle and also try to keep an eye on where people are just so I don't run them over. How does one know if they are staring at a person or simply looking beyond them or in that general direction?

If I had to generalize, I'd say the OP has a predjudice against men. There is no denying that preverts exist, but the presumption of the OP was the vast majority of men were perverts.
I've said this a few times. I'll say it again. Some of you people,and definitely you,are obtuse. Just simply unable to grasp a concept.
 

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
Real slow. The movies that are marketed as being about child/adult relations are usually featuring actresses that resemble the subject matter. $hit,am I typing in English?
I know how to read. I actually googled the name of every single movie title that you posted. None of them came up with any results. Not even Schoolgirl Nymphs which shocked me. You have a problem with it, contact Comcast. You don't want your husband watching it, tell him that it offends you. Just because a man may watch a movie with those titles does not make him a pedo. It just means that he likes to look at young chicks. Men know those chicks are 18. It says it in the disclaimer before each and every one of those movies start.

IF you're trying to say that the porn industry does not have it's fair share of women who look to young to be having sex, I'm just going to have to call :bs:. 'cuz I've seen a little porn in my lifetime, too.
AND, if you have never had the pop-up ads on your computer advertizing those young, nubile entertainers, you're surfing must be pretty limited.
Porn producers find great pride in picking of age women that look younger. Younger as in 18. I've yet to come across one that had a woman in it that looked 12. Not even the little Asian chicks that bow to American men.
 
Sex, sexuality and being attracted to those you find sexually attractive is normal. It's when you start divert from the consensual adult/adult sex that becomes questionable... and because the definition of 'perversion' is objective we will always see some as perverted that don't see themselves as perverted.

That's why we are allowed to (and supposed to) judge others and let them know when we find something unacceptable... like Gretchen did whe the guy oogled her 13 year old. It's also why we have threads to discuss our opinions. Like in many subjects the right/wrong line isn't straightforward and collective discussion can help us form and firm up our own as well as put others on notice that perhaps they are the problem. This goes for many subjects not just sex.
 

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
Monello and I are watching The Americans, just started with the pilot last night. Phillip was at the mall with his 13 year old daughter and some adult male douchebag started giving her the business. Phillip went over and confronted the guy, who made a rude remark and walked off. It happens that Phillip is a highly trained undercover KGB agent, so he went to the guy's house later and beat the ever loving #### out of him.

:smile:

Sorry, this thread just made me think about that.

Anyway, you defensive guilty men aside, it's not out of the ordinary to find young girls attractive. I think many of them are cute as buttons and can see how an adult man would be attracted. What counts is what you do with it, whether you dig up pics of them to jerk off over, or solicit them for sex, or whether you are able to simply admire them from afar and keep your dirty old man hands to yourself.

It would be honest for guys to say, "Hell yeah, she's a cutie pie. Too bad she's only 15." What is dishonest is to insist that you're not looking at all.
Kind of like all of those Britney Spears countdown to 18 widgets? :lmao:
 

SG_Player1974

New Member
I've said this a few times. I'll say it again. Some of you people,and definitely you,are obtuse. Just simply unable to grasp a concept.
No... what you are saying is "Agree with every word I am saying or you are WRONG!"

You seem awfully eager to call others names and engage ANYONE who posts on here into juvenille behavior. It sounds to me like the jealousy verdict I mentioned before is misplaced.

Sounds more to me like you might be jealous of those "flat chested, young girls" in porn. Maybe because you wish you looked like them perhaps? :shrug:

Some douchebag was checking out your daughter! Big F'n deal! Get over it and move on! Its gonna happen again..... Welcome to today's society sweetie! :popcorn:
 

mAlice

professional daydreamer
No... what you are saying is "Agree with every word I am saying or you are WRONG!"

You seem awfully eager to call others names and engage ANYONE who posts on here into juvenille behavior. It sounds to me like the jealousy verdict I mentioned before is misplaced.

Sounds more to me like you might be jealous of those "flat chested, young girls" in porn. Maybe because you wish you looked like them perhaps? :shrug:

Some douchebag was checking out your daughter! Big F'n deal! Get over it and move on! Its gonna happen again..... Welcome to today's society sweetie! :popcorn:
Haven't gotten that itch scratched yet, huh?
 

Homeland

New Member
Because she phrased it as a question and asked for others opinions on the subject. I don't believe that all people that watch porn are pedophiles. But I can tell you this; when I was 10 years old, my friend, my 8 y/o sister and I were approached by a man asking for directions. He asked us to write them down and tried to pass a porn magazine that was featuring little girls. We ran away.
I was a young boy and a guy asked us to help him find his dog. We didn't but I assume he had bad intentions. So what does that have to do with this statement, which was not posed as a question. "Pedophiles are just the average guy it seems". That is the statement. No question mark. No question posed in that statement. It was meant to be inflamatory and insulting. Now there is a boo hoo because people are calling her out on it. Was her daughter really dressed as she is described? Has her daughter ever engaged in sexual activity with any of those men who were looking at her? Is her daughter someone who engages in or has produced child pornography? Those are questions.
 

SG_Player1974

New Member
Don't think so. Haven't seen any Amber alerts.
It is posts like this that just reinforce the fact that you started this thread to either be inflamatory or to engage people into an argument because your own life has no excitement or meaning.

Which kind of relates back to my jealousy hypothesis.... Hmmmmmm
 

gretchen

New Member
I was a young boy and a guy asked us to help him find his dog. We didn't but I assume he had bad intentions. So what does that have to do with this statement, which was not posed as a question. "Pedophiles are just the average guy it seems". That is the statement. No question mark. No question posed in that statement. It was meant to be inflamatory and insulting. Now there is a boo hoo because people are calling her out on it. Was her daughter really dressed as she is described? Has her daughter ever engaged in sexual activity with any of those men who were looking at her? Is her daughter someone who engages in or has produced child pornography? Those are questions.
You know,you're really mouthy via the internet. If you asked those questions of me in person,you'd get treated like the b*itch you act like.
 

dontknowwhy

New Member
So in my situation,I'm imagining it and being sensitive because no one checks out your granddaughter but when when RoseRed described a similar scenario you didn't accuse her of the same? And a pedophile is defined as a man who is only into prepubescent girls? .
Let's start here.

I believe the word he used was someone yet, you chose to substitute man...automatically.
Ignoring the recent Ravens cheerleader case, the numerous cases against female teachers and even Mary Kay Latourneau.
YOU chose to redefine pedophilia

And you wonder why men might assume you think all men are pedophiles
 
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