It's also no good for the special needs kids. If they have special needs, why wouldn't that be accommodated in an appropriate school instead of "mainstreaming", which pretty much ignores any special needs that child might have?
I don't understand why parents would find it offensive or exclusionary for their child to receive the extra help s/he requires. You'd think they'd want their kid to be in the best learning environment for their needs.
Frankly I don't know why inclusion is the end all be all now either.
I can tell you from experience that there is a range of disabilities out there. I knew a highly regarded educator in the field of special education, he worked for a private boarding school for special needs children - I would say for the well to do.
One thing I remember him saying about something I was assisting with, "never mix emotionally / socially" disturbed children with those with physical disabilities.
Even if you had a school for "special needs" students, it would be difficult to handles the spectrum.
The problem is, a disablity in one area doesn't mean the student can't be brilliant in another.
I think the most important thing is to educate the public, and the educators, on what learning disabilities really are.
So many people assume someone with an IEP is just stupid, the class dummy. Fact is the test actually compares their functional IQ to their performance IQ. Many test in the gifted if not genius ranges on the functional IQ but score much lower on the performance.
Going back to the story, the boy had at least three things that would be treated differently, autism, anxiety and ADHD.
I'd have to make them wear a chart, like on the bed in the hospital, with the diagnosis and treatment plans. Just so I was sure what I was dealing with who.