Sex in public schools...

[itsbob]

I'd rather she be bruised then raped. And sorry I didn't raise any of my kids to be victims.

Now if I asked any woman on here what they would do if someone reached under their skirt or shirt I'm sure they would say 'it's on like donkey kong' but you expect someone's daughter to be a passive victim?

OOPS, I posted as BG again..

 

[SoMDGirl42]

I'd rather she be bruised then raped. And sorry I didn't raise any of my kids to be victims.

Now if I asked any woman on here what they would do if someone reached under their skirt or shirt I'm sure they would say 'it's on like donkey kong' but you expect someone's daughter to be a passive victim?

I didn't raise my daughter to be a "passive victim". Is every woman who has been raped a passive victim? No, and I'm sure at the time of their rape, they did what they could do to protect themselves, and I'm sure in alot of cases the rape still occurred, so I ask again, does that make them a passive victim? I did what I needed to do to remedy the situation. He now has a record that includes a sexual assualt that will follow him until he's 25. Hopefully no other woman will have to endure this behavior from him. And I assure you, this has made my daughter more aggressive than you would ever imagine. If she were ever in this situation again, the dude would loose more than one eye, his balls and half his pecker!

 

[itsbob]

If she were ever in this situation again, the dude would loose more than one eye, his balls and half his pecker!

Then why are you saying exactly what I'm saying, but disagreeing with me too?

I'm not saying what your daughter did was right or wrong, she reacted to a situation she didn't think would happen and she was not prepared for, that's all. Now she knows what to do if it happens again. That's a good thing.

 

[SoMDGirl42]

Then why are you saying exactly what I'm saying, but disagreeing with me too?

I'm not saying what your daughter did was right or wrong, she reacted to a situation she didn't think would happen and she was not prepared for, that's all. Now she knows what to do if it happens again. That's a good thing.

Guess I misunderstood, I thought you were implying I raised my daughter to be a passive victim.

In that case, I agree with you

 

[vraiblonde]

It's not like in the movies where some unsuspecting thug makes the mistake of attacking Uma Thurman and gets his ass whipped for him. One good cuff upside the head and you're down, I don't care who you are.

We'd be better off teaching our daughters situational awareness, rather than some martial arts fighting technique. This kid didn't attack SoMD's daughter - he groped her. And she did the right thing by telling a teacher and parent, rather than trying to take him on physically and getting hurt in the process.

 

[kwillia]

It's not like in the movies where some unsuspecting thug makes the mistake of attacking Uma Thurman and gets his ass whipped for him. One good cuff upside the head and you're down, I don't care who you are.

We'd be better off teaching our daughters situational awareness, rather than some martial arts fighting technique. This kid didn't attack SoMD's daughter - he groped her. And she did the right thing by telling a teacher and parent, rather than trying to take him on physically and getting hurt in the process.

What I did learn from thisi thread though is that if I ever have to deal with something like this... I'm involving the police from the get go.

 

[SoMDGirl42]

What I did learn from thisi thread though is that if I ever have to deal with something like this... I'm involving the police from the get go.

EXCELLENT! My entire point for replying to this. This shouldn't be a school problem, this is a criminal problem, and no, I'm not referring to the kindergarden kids chasing each other around the playground trying to steal a kiss on the cheek, I'm referring to the older ones and problems with real potential danger.

 

[Benjismom]

Sorry, but I don't put a lot of stock in what anyone other than myself considers a sexual assault or indecent exposure. The school system may actually try and water down this info for fear of making "The List". My concern as a parent is only heightened since schools now integrated the SPECIAL medicated kids from the short bus into the classrooms.

Definitely agree with your last comment...

I'm really curious what you mean by your concern as a parent is heightened since schools now integrated SPECIAL medicated kids from the short bus into the classrooms.

What do you propose we do with these children?

 

[Chain729]

It's not like in the movies where some unsuspecting thug makes the mistake of attacking Uma Thurman and gets his ass whipped for him. One good cuff upside the head and you're down, I don't care who you are.

Nobody said anything about movie crap. I've been trained and I've spent enough time in the ring and in fights to know what works and what's BS. I also understand the body mechanics and biology behind it- which, really, is stupid simple.

Example: Did you know that there's a rather large nerve (femoral nerve) that runs down the outside of your thigh? This nerve controls motion to the rest of the leg. If hit, the muscles in your leg relax for a moment and if you have weight on it, you will fall. It doesn't require a lot of force and the force required doesn't have to be the most accurate. Even better, its a very easy target to get to. Don't believe me? Try it.

As for watching movies, I've had to learn to keep my mouth shut. People say it ruins the movie when you start picking apart fight scenes, telling them what "doesn't work that way."

We'd be better off teaching our daughters situational awareness, rather than some martial arts fighting technique. This kid didn't attack SoMD's daughter - he groped her. And she did the right thing by telling a teacher and parent, rather than trying to take him on physically and getting hurt in the process.

As for the value of situational awareness, I couldn't agree more.

 

[itsbob]

And she did the right thing by telling a teacher and parent, rather than trying to take him on physically and getting hurt in the process.

And what did that get her??

Sexually assaulted again!

If someone like say SmoothMarine walked up to you in a bar and reached under your skirt, what would you do, let him, and then when he's done go call the cops on him?? I don't think so!

 

[Richard Cranium]

I don't think any marine would be wanting to have anything to do with being up a girls skirt......now, their foxhole buddy, that's a different story....

 

[chernmax]

Hahahahaaaa Press a nerve I have...

01-18-2007 10:30 AM God forbide that special needs children are educated with your charming children you #######

 

[chernmax]

I'm really curious what you mean by your concern as a parent is heightened since schools now integrated SPECIAL medicated kids from the short bus into the classrooms.

What do you propose we do with these children?

Teach them in classes with other Special kids like they use to do verse this kinder, gentler school system who have succumb to whiny, pin-headed ass liberals who have fix the problem by lowering the school standards...

Here, listen to my favorite Charlos Mencia song on the subject...

DEE DEE DEE Song

 

[Benjismom]

Teach them in classes with other Special kids like they use to do verse this kinder, gentler school system who have succumb to whiny, pin-headed ass liberals who have fix the problem by lowering the school standards...

Here, listen to my favorite Charlos Mencia song on the subject...

DEE DEE DEE Song

Thanks for the song, didn't bother to listen because I agree with the person who left you the karma. Now I have another question.

Why don't you send your "charming" children to a private school where they don't have to tolerate special medicated children?

and more importantly

When did George Bush turn into a whiny pin-ass liberal? He's the one that signed No Child Left Behind.

 

[Booboo3604]

It's not like in the movies where some unsuspecting thug makes the mistake of attacking Uma Thurman and gets his ass whipped for him. One good cuff upside the head and you're down, I don't care who you are.
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I agree with your point about teaching situational awareness, but as a young female, I also believe that you have to fight back. Yeah, one good punch upside the head and I may be out, but then they are attacking a lifeless body. Alot of attacks are driven strictly by the attacker craving power and control. If you take that feeling of overpowering and control away, its not as exciting. Thats like those people that are attacked at gunpoint and end up driving their attacker 50 miles away to a deserted area only to be raped and killed because their attacker said that they would let them live if they did what they said. My feelings are that if you are going to bring a gun, you have already predetermined whether or not you are going to shoot me. If you are using it for intimidation, I am going to fight you right where you approached me. If you brought it with the intentions of killing me anyways, you are going to have to use it whereever you approached me and then once again, you are taking advantage of a lifeless body. Like I said, thats my personal opinion. Everyone is different. I just know for me, I would fight to the end.

 

[comebabycome]

sheesh... what about Racial Harassment?

When I was at GMHS, it was easy to get beat up for being white. The black kids always had a certain area they hung out in, and any white boy/girl who walked by and they wanted to take their racial harassment on was fair game.

The teachers and administrators did nothing about it, as if it was some affirmative action program to give them revenge on whitey for slavery.

I wonder if its changed?

i wouldn't think it has changed...

 

[chernmax]

Are you REALLY a retired Naval officer? You come across as so low class.

Yes and no, thanks for playing...

 

[vraiblonde]

Let's keep this reasonably civil, please. There's no need for name-calling and ugliness.

 

[comebabycome]

what's wrong with having sex in school...as long as you're not caught?

 

[TruPeace]

I've seen it all after I graduated in GMHS in 2006. It's an everyday thing. Children raising children for the elementary school part.