#1, the 50s called and they want their activists back.
#2, if you have a husband/boyfriend who controls that much of your life, voting "safely" is not your biggest problem.
It's like the Democrats have entered a time warp. They swear Trump will bring back slavery, forgetting entirely that slavery was a Democrat thing; Republicans are the ones who made them knock it off. They insist Trump will take away women's right to vote, like Trump has the power to rescind a constitutional amendment. It's crazy to watch and even crazier to see people fall for it.