http://newsmax.com/archives/ic/2004/4/10/105053.shtml
"Arrogant and insulting" are good words to describe it.Proxy baptisms are conducted in Mormon temples and offer salvation to the dead. Church members stand in to be dunked in water in the names of the deceased non-Mormons, a ritual the church says is required to get to heaven. However, the practice has caused tension with members of other faiths, especially Jews, who find it arrogant and insulting.
And we talk about Muslims.The Mormon church has long collected names from government documents and other records worldwide for the rituals. The practice is primarily intended to offer salvation to the ancestors of Mormons, but many others are included. The church says the practice does not force a change of religion in the afterlife since Mormons believe the dead can still accept or reject the offering.