Too Hot 4u runs amok
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The need to be critical and in control of everything can be exhausting. You may be pushing your friends and loved ones away, and when you become a prisoner to your sense of order, it can be unhealthy and neurotic. I offer the following advice on how to lighten up.Christy said:That was beautiful.It really was.
But who really cares?
Stop thinking the world revolves around you.
"We get to thinking we're the center of the universe and everyone's watching, so we hold ourselves to really high standards for fear of judgment."
Stop wearing yourself out with issues that no one else cares about.
Realize that perfectionism is an imperfection.
It's fine to be attentive to details, but when you're driving your loved ones away, you need to re-examine your behavior.
Learn to trust yourself.
Do you trust yourself enough, have enough self-worth to believe that someone would be with you if you don't make them do it? Start feeling secure enough with yourself so that you're not so clingy, needy, controlling and demanding.
Embrace the spirit of acceptance.
If you fear that you may not be able to handle situations you may encounter, the need to be a control freak comes in. Most people have more resiliency, depth, strength and flexibility than they give themselves credit for. This means you. Trust yourself to handle all kinds of circumstances.
If you do you have not lived enough life yet. Not too hot 4 your own brother, You won't be 14 forever, you must learn to be beautiful from within.
Beelzebaby666
Has confinement issues..
Too Hot 4u said:
Pic1 - Wedged in between two young and lovely ladies in hopes that no one will notice the washed out complexion, extremely wide set eyes, reminiscent of an alien or her pappy's first cousin and the thinning brows and lips.
Pic2 - Very Jerry Hall, that is, if you like rode hard rocker wives with stringy hair badly in need of a lift and the extra support bra, badly in need of a lift.
Pic3 - Looks barrell chested in spite of the minimal bust line. This pic really shows the wide forehead protruding ears and turkey neck.
Overall, I'd say you have really represented yourself accuratly, therefore combined with your personality
and openess since entering the forum....I'd like to offer you a flaming bag of poop and a hearty
Welcome to the... ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
