Most kids today (I’d say kids up to about the age of 30) don’t even know what hand-me-downs are. Parents will put themselves in debt to make sure their kid had the coolest Nikes or the best cell phone. For Christmas/birthdays, we got what we needed (socks, clothes, etc…); rarely anything we really wanted. My bicycle was pieced together from parts I scrounged from people’s trash and dumps and such. This sounds sad to some; but this taught me invaluable mechanical skills. When I was in Jr High, I woke up at 3am to deliver newspapers, my dad was working as a general contractor, his company hired me over the summer to help some of the carpenters, roofers, and other workers. I learned how to lay shingles, measure lumber, use electric tools, and swing a hammer. I had to dig ditches, mix concrete by hand, and carry shingles up to a roof on a ladder. It was HARD-ASS work. Then I’d go home and mow lawns in the evening. I never really had summer vacations per se.
So, for me, it’s hard to understand this “I worked hard and was rewarded nothing” mentality. I was never expected to be ‘rewarded’ anything except a paycheck. This thinking carried me through my entire life.