Thinking about this
initial impact I think for a very short split second the lighter vehicle would feel greater force.
Once the crush zones start crushing the force might equalize
if there is still force left after crush zones are totally collapsed, I think that the weight of the heavier vehicle would then over power the lighter vehicle.
so basically, I think it depends on the initial force of impact.
Don't want to hijack the thread, don't want to open a new new line of banter, but.....
I remember an argument about 2 vehicles in a head on. Both vehicles are doing 50mph. The question is: what is the impact speed?
One camp says 100mph, the combined speed. The other camp says 50, a single vehicle does not gain energy from the other, the force is neutralized at the point of impact. No more damage to a single vehicle than if it were doing 50 and hit a brick wall. A definitive answer on this would probably answer your question on transfer of force and crumple zones.
And I haven't taken sides on that argument.