Vitter...

[Larry Gude]

...there's a piece in the Post today by Ruth Marcus. Look it up if you care. She's dumb.

But, she brought up the subject of todays survey; what's worse...cheating or going to a hooker?

 

[vraiblonde]

cheating or going to a hooker?

What's the difference?

 

[kwillia]

...there's a piece in the Post today by Ruth Marcus. Look it up if you care. She's dumb.

But, she brought up the subject of todays survey; what's worse...cheating or going to a hooker?

I'd have to pick 'B', Regis.... because getting a hooker IS cheating and the bastard is spending OUR money to do it.

 

[Kerad]

Vitter did both.

 

[Larry Gude]

Well...

What's the difference?

...you've inspired a new poll. Depending on the outcome of this one.

 

[Larry Gude]

About...

What's the difference?

...tree fiddy.

 

[vraiblonde]

the bastard is spending OUR money to do it.

But if he's got a cookie on the side who's not a hooker, he's still spending our money wining and dining her and buying her presents.

A hooker's probably cheaper, so I'll vote that a non-hooker is worse.

 

[Larry Gude]

So you do...

But if he's got a cookie on the side who's not a hooker, he's still spending our money wining and dining her and buying her presents.

A hooker's probably cheaper, so I'll vote that a non-hooker is worse.

...understand the question.

 

[Gwydion]

When I was in High school, my principal got arrested picking up a hooker on the way home from a school basketball game. his wife had to bail him out.

Cheating is cheating, but I'd say cheating on your spouse with a non-hooker is worse, as in that case you are looking for more than sex.

 

[MMDad]

Using a hooker is like rubbing one out, you just have help.

An affair implies a little more emotion, so it is worse.

Physical cheating = bad

Emotional cheating = worse

Physical cheating plus emotional cheating = worst

 

[hotmomma]

Using a hooker is like rubbing one out, you just have help.

An affair implies a little more emotion, so it is worse.

Physical cheating = bad

Emotional cheating = worse

Physical cheating plus emotional cheating = worst

 

[This_person]

Using a hooker is like rubbing one out, you just have help.

An affair implies a little more emotion, so it is worse.

Physical cheating = bad

Emotional cheating = worse

Physical cheating plus emotional cheating = worst

Not judging, just asking:

By what you said here, you'd rather your spouse have a quickie that means nothing than have a "friend" they share with intimate feelings, but never touch each other?

 

[hotmomma]

Not judging, just asking:

By what you said here, you'd rather your spouse have a quickie that means nothing than have a "friend" they share with intimate feelings, but never touch each other?

I'm not gonna speak for MM, but I feel the same way. Cheating in any form is bad but if I had to choose an option I would go for the hooker. If your spouse hooks up with a hooker it is just to get laid and not to start a relationship. No strings attached. If you actually have a friendship and then it turns into a physical relationship then that means you have feelings for the person.

 

[MMDad]

Not judging, just asking:

By what you said here, you'd rather your spouse have a quickie that means nothing than have a "friend" they share with intimate feelings, but never touch each other?

Have you ever worked in the nuclear power field? In the Navy, people who overanalyzed everything were accused of "nuking it out."

You just always seem to nuke everything out until it becomes pointless.

 

[This_person]

Have you ever worked in the nuclear power field? In the Navy, people who overanalyzed everything were accused of "nuking it out."

You just always seem to nuke everything out until it becomes pointless.

In the Navy, nukes who "nuke it out" are "figuring it out". When things are not blatantly obvious, they need nuked out.

Or, in answer to your question, yes.

 

[Larry Gude]

So far...

Using a hooker is like rubbing one out, you just have help.

An affair implies a little more emotion, so it is worse.

Physical cheating = bad

Emotional cheating = worse

Physical cheating plus emotional cheating = worst

...my thesis, according to the poll, that Ruth Marcus is dumb is holding up nicely.

She thinks Vitters bigger sin was the hooker as it demeans ALL women instead of 'just' cheating where only one woman is demeaned.

 

[usagent]

Just marry a Hooker.

 

[Larry Gude]

Imagine...

Just marry a Hooker.

...a wife who understands that some times all the old man wants is to knock a piece off.


"Well, if you'd treat me like you did when we first met I'd want to have sex more".

"Oh, you mean like how you treat me like we just met all the time?"

"That's different."

"Of course it is."

"You have to get me in the mood."

"How's fiddy bucks sound?"


*crash* *bang* *wallop*

 

[kmw1123]

If I ever found out that he had a mistress or hooker, his butt would get kicked to the curb either way.

 

[dems4me]

Using a hooker is like rubbing one out, you just have help.

An affair implies a little more emotion, so it is worse.

Physical cheating = bad

Emotional cheating = worse

Physical cheating plus emotional cheating = worst

I agree with you, I would definately be MORE upset if someone was cheating AND emotionally attracted to someone else other than me as well... because then where does that leave me if you can't win the edge on emotional attractiveness or body :shrug: not much left before I'm kicked to the curb. However it is still cheating with a hooker but I would think to a lesser to degree personally but then again with hookers I think you have a higher risk for diseases that could be passed on - thats where you need to come and tell me about it immediately and be honest (not saying nonhookers can't carry diseases, I just think their risks are lower) :shrug: I'm not sure that all made sense though... I'm struggling trying to explain this one but I'd feel better if I was cheated on by a hooker than a flame :shrug: