Walking Naptime Hell

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
Ever since my son started to walk last week it has been hell trying to get him to take a nap. Up until then he was taking 2 long naps a day. I'm talking about 2 and a half hour naps. Now I am lucky if he takes one 1 hour nap a day. It takes an hour to get him to lay down. He's having a screamfest right now as I am posting. Is this normal? He's such a good little boy, but he does not want to go to sleep. Is this because he'd rather be watching mommy chase him around the house?
Just want to hear your stories and possible suggestions. Thanks! :huggy:
 

jwwb2000

pretty black roses
sockgirl77 said:
Ever since my son started to walk last week it has been hell trying to get him to take a nap. Up until then he was taking 2 long naps a day. I'm talking about 2 and a half hour naps. Now I am lucky if he takes one 1 hour nap a day. It takes an hour to get him to lay down. He's having a screamfest right now as I am posting. Is this normal? He's such a good little boy, but he does not want to go to sleep. Is this because he'd rather be watching mommy chase him around the house?
Just want to hear your stories and possible suggestions. Thanks! :huggy:

New found freedom to go whereever he wants and without mom's help. :huggy:
 

JabbaJawz

Be about it
How old is he now? He may be going through a growth spurt and giving up one of the naps. My youngest babe has given up her morning nap in the past month, and just takes one nap in the afternoon - ranging from 1.5-2.5 hours. She's 15 mos.
 

CMC122

Go Braves!
Just stay consistent with your routine and he'll fall back into it! Maybe not 2 naps but atleast one good one:yay:
 

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
JabbaJawz said:
How old is he now? He may be going through a growth spurt and giving up one of the naps. My youngest babe has given up her morning nap in the past month, and just takes one nap in the afternoon - ranging from 1.5-2.5 hours. She's 15 mos.
He's 14 months. Every time that he has gone in a growth spurt before he's slept extra long. Guess, I'll have to get used to it. I just wish he'd go to sleep a little easier. I have had no problems until last week. Now he's pulling the mamamamamamama thing. Breaks my heart but he needs a nap! :lalala:
 

Elle

Happy Camper!
I'm sure it's nothing a little butt wooping won't fix.

Have you tried laying down with him?
 

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
Elle said:
I'm sure it's nothing a little butt wooping won't fix.

Have you tried laying down with him?
The butt wooping part is out of the question. I lay down with him every now and then but he gets spoiled. I have been told by so many ppl not to do it. Otherwise, he won't go to sleep on his own.

Update: he has been to sleep for over 15 minutes now! :dance:
 

Toxick

Splat
sockgirl77 said:
Ever since my son started to walk last week it has been hell trying to get him to take a nap. Up until then he was taking 2 long naps a day. I'm talking about 2 and a half hour naps.

I hope you enjoyed those days.

Because they are gone forever.


Sorry.


sockgirl77 said:
Now I am lucky if he takes one 1 hour nap a day. It takes an hour to get him to lay down. He's having a screamfest right now as I am posting. Is this normal?


Yes, it's normal. I'd be boggled if he didn't react that way. Now he's tasted the freedom of motion.

Nap-time is an unwanted removal of that freedom. Naturally, he's P.O'ed about that.


sockgirl77 said:
He's such a good little boy, but he does not want to go to sleep. Is this because he'd rather be watching mommy chase him around the house?

It's because of the freedom I mentioned up above, plus it's energy the likes of which you would not believe. All three of my kids (and no doubt the one on the way will as well) have amounts of energy that are incomprehensible to my mind. It's perpetual motion... motion, motion, motion. When you make them sit still, they fidget - and if you let them, they will start doing jumping jacks and bouncing off the walls - literally. Their metabolism is in rocket-mode and will remain that way for a while.

My oldest - 6 - is finally settling down (sort of). Just in time for school.



sockgirl77 said:
Just want to hear your stories and possible suggestions. Thanks! :huggy:

A comforting note: It'll get better when he starts talking.

But from now until he learns how to talk it's going to be rough sailing. Beginning now, that he can walk, he will get into stuff - and by "stuff" I mean every damned thing in your house - and he's very soon going to start knowing what he wants and where it is - but cannot express himself verbally. This is going to be very frustrating for him, and even moreso for you.

It'll blow over though.

Then it's relatively smooth-sailing until they're teenagers.
 

meme

The Smart Hooker
I think it's normal SG. Mine is 11 months and was taking two naps a day, then just one, now back to two again. Maybe he's just getting older and now that he's walking, he's able to explore more. Everything is new to him now.
 

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
meme said:
I think it's normal SG. Mine is 11 months and was taking two naps a day, then just one, now back to two again. Maybe he's just getting older and now that he's walking, he's able to explore more. Everything is new to him now.
nap only last an hour!
 

Ehesef

Yo Gabba Gabba
Elle said:
I'm sure it's nothing a little butt wooping won't fix.

Have you tried laying down with him?
:yeahthat:

I wouldn't lay down with him though. He needs to learn that when Mom says take a nap, you take a damn nap.
 

suzeQ

Occasional User
Sockgirl,
Is your son climbing out of the crib, or just calling to you?

A trick I used when mine didn't want to take naps anymore was to tell them they didn't have to sleep, just 'rest' for a while. I would set a timer (you could use a CD or tape, too) and tell them when it went off, they could get up. Nine times out of ten, they fell asleep. If they even get an hour rest, as opposed to actual sleep, at least it will help.

It may take him a little while to understand that he can't get up until the alarm/music sounds, but it worked for mine. If they refused to settle down, I would reset the timer. Eventually they quit fighting the rest time.

Good luck.

SuzeQ
 

MargeInCharge

New Member
Both my kids took 2 naps a day up until they were about a year old. About an hour in the morning and 2 hours in the afternoon. After a year, they both took about a 2 hour nap in the afternoon. My oldest did that until he was 3, but my youngest only until she was 18 mos old. She would scream and scream and there was nothing I could do to make her go to sleep. I finally gave up trying and realized you can't force sleep. Yes, she was cranky in the late afternoon (and so was I after not having a break all day!), but she ended up going to bed a lot earlier. When she was taking the nap she wouldn't go to sleep for the night until about 10:00 pm, but with no nap she was down and out between 7:30-8:00. So it worked out. That said, she was my more "willfull" baby :)

I remember someone told me once that I needed to "discipline" her more so she would take a nap. I remember thinking to myself, what am I supposed to do, spank her so she'll sleep? As frustrating as it is, you just can't make them fall asleep. About that time I started leaving her with my husband one night a week so I could have some down time for myself. Boy did I need it.
 
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