pcjohnnyb
New Member
It's just a bit confusing to me to read here that, what you ladies find attractive in a guy, contradicts what many of you have settled for that's all. You say: "intelligence, wit, ambition & stability" and yet I've read how you complain about your "man" being lazy (counters the ambitious part), not too smart (counters intelligence) and not having a good job (countering the stability part). Trust me, I do read what many of you post from your heart.
What a man is at home after 20 years isn't necessarily what he was when he was a hardworking, had all his braincells, 25 year old. Just because the person you fell in love with doesn't CURRENTLY fit your "perfect SO" description, doesn't mean that he never did :shrug:
and nobody is perfect

Well...


oops, raise, fingers too fast today

'twas a joke 