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ItalianScallion

Harley Rider
Radiant1 said:
Oh I see what you're saying.

As for myself, I've never had a momma's boy, not my current BF or my ex-husband; I could not tolerate that, I want to be a partner to my man not a babysitter.
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Good for you. You shouldn't have to babysit real men. I wish more ladies like you were available. The ones I meet leave a lot to be desired but I know there's a few good ones out there so I won't give up.:yay:
 
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kris31280

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ItalianScallion said:
Good for you. You shouldn't have to babysit real men. I wish more ladies like you were available. The ones I meet leave a lot to be desired but I know there's a few good ones out there so I won't give up.:yay:
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My ex didn't act as a mama's boy until we moved in together. The man I fell in love with and the man I moved in with were two separate people, I swear. I stuck it out 2 1/2 months before I broke off the engagement and the relationship because I was NOT going to be married to a mama's boy.
 
pcjohnnyb

pcjohnnyb

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kris31280 said:
My ex didn't act as a mama's boy until we moved in together. The man I fell in love with and the man I moved in with were two separate people, I swear. I stuck it out 2 1/2 months before I broke off the engagement and the relationship because I was NOT going to be married to a mama's boy.
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curious.
how long were you with him before moving in together and how much time did you spend with him in this period?
 
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kris31280

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pcjohnnyb said:
curious.
how long were you with him before moving in together and how much time did you spend with him in this period?
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We were together for about a year before we moved in together, and we had spent lots of time together before that... usually Friday through Sunday, and then a week for Christmas with my family right after our engagement.
 
pcjohnnyb

pcjohnnyb

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kris31280 said:
We were together for about a year before we moved in together, and we had spent lots of time together before that... usually Friday through Sunday, and then a week for Christmas with my family right after our engagement.
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and you still didn't have a good idea of how he'd be? He changed that suddenly? That sucks.

flomaster said:
1.Si
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3.Si
4.Si
5.Si
6.Si ( 2x daily)

Ola Chica :really:
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I hope you don't want someone who can spell in spanish :lol:
 
Lugnut

Lugnut

I'm Rick James #####!
Wow, none of the ladies said "money" amazing how short those lists of "requirements" get when a guy has a six figure income. :lmao:
 
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kris31280

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pcjohnnyb said:
and you still didn't have a good idea of how he'd be? He changed that suddenly? That sucks.



I hope you don't want someone who can spell in spanish :lol:
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Yeah... he was laid off from his other job and kind of lazed about my apartment, not really trying to find work, while I was pregnant and working my tail off to pay both of our bills.

The man I fell in love with had ambition, drive, stability, focus, and wanted to make me feel safe and secure. I actually fell in love with him because he was bound and determined he was going to take care of me and went far out of his way to make my life easier. The man I moved in with lounged on my couch playing FFXI all day long, ate my food, never cooked dinner, never cleaned, and finally got a part time job doing warehouse work... the money he made didn't even cover half of the bills he brought to the family.
 
bcp

bcp

In My Opinion
kris31280 said:
My ex didn't act as a mama's boy until we moved in together. The man I fell in love with and the man I moved in with were two separate people, I swear. I stuck it out 2 1/2 months before I broke off the engagement and the relationship because I was NOT going to be married to a mama's boy.
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I dont mean to laugh but this is funny.
my wife will try to mother me constantly,,,
did you do this yet, did you do that yet, are you going to, do you have any reciepts, etc..

my response to her on a regular basis?
If I wanted someone to F-ing mother me, I would never have moved out of my parents house in the first place...

lets hook your ex up with pan lady.
 
pcjohnnyb

pcjohnnyb

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kris31280 said:
Yeah... he was laid off from his other job and kind of lazed about my apartment, not really trying to find work, while I was pregnant and working my tail off to pay both of our bills.

The man I fell in love with had ambition, drive, stability, focus, and wanted to make me feel safe and secure. I actually fell in love with him because he was bound and determined he was going to take care of me and went far out of his way to make my life easier. The man I moved in with lounged on my couch playing FFXI all day long, ate my food, never cooked dinner, never cleaned, and finally got a part time job doing warehouse work... the money he made didn't even cover half of the bills he brought to the family.
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Hypothetical question.

If he came into your life again (assuming he left), and had apparently changed his ways, would you give him another chance to prove himself?
 
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kris31280

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pcjohnnyb said:
Hypothetical question.

If he came into your life again (assuming he left), and had apparently changed his ways, would you give him another chance to prove himself?
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In your hypothetical situation... do we have a child together? Because if you're asking if he were to come back in to my life as it is right now and prove that he's changed and was the man I had fallen in love with, the answer is no because of the way he's treated (or not treated, really) our child. If we didn't have a child together and he were to come back in to my life and prove that he had changed and became the man I had fallen in love with, then yes, I'd take him back.

Children change everything... every move, every thought, every action, everything I do now revolves around my son and what's in his best interest. To hell with love or being in love with someone, if they're not good for my son then they cannot be part of my life.
 
pcjohnnyb

pcjohnnyb

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kris31280 said:
In your hypothetical situation... do we have a child together? Because if you're asking if he were to come back in to my life as it is right now and prove that he's changed and was the man I had fallen in love with, the answer is no because of the way he's treated (or not treated, really) our child. If we didn't have a child together and he were to come back in to my life and prove that he had changed and became the man I had fallen in love with, then yes, I'd take him back.

Children change everything... every move, every thought, every action, everything I do now revolves around my son and what's in his best interest. To hell with love or being in love with someone, if they're not good for my son then they cannot be part of my life.
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I like that response :yay:

I was all ready to either way "well, what if he recesses back to being lazy, etc" if you said yes, or "well, what if he really HAS changed and you miss out on the love of your life" if you said no :lol:

I like your answer though :yay::yay:
 
bcp

bcp

In My Opinion
Im thinking that any guy that has to lug his nuts around,,, you know, Im just saying.....
 
Dye Tied

Dye Tied

Garden Variety Gnome
migtig said:
If he can expound upon dark matter, string theory,and zero gravity; and can debate philosphy, politics and psychology; loves animals and small children; isn't afraid to get dirty; and doesn't mind my obsession with ELVIS and Stephen Hawkins, he's not just attractive, but a keeper as well. :hot:

Gawd I am blessed.
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Gawd, wouldn't that be Stephen Hawking? :duh:
 
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