what to say to a family...

happyappygirl

Rocky Mountain High!!
whose dog has been diagnosed with what appears to be an aggressive form of cancer? he is their only child. it's so sad. he's almost 6 years old WAY too young! He's one of ours, he's an American, Canadian, UKC Best in Show dog, with advanced obedience titles, and has a lump under his shoulder the vet feels sure is cancer (no biposy because the surgery would be so involved they've chosen to not do it) but it's getting worse almost by the day and he's pretty lame from it. It's been awful for them. :frown:
 

K_Jo

Pea Brain
PREMO Member
You should say the same thing you'd say if a human family member were sick.

Poor pup. :bawl:
 

cattitude

My Sweetest Boy
I'd comfort them but if the dog is in pain, I'd try to convince them to let him go. It's awful, but you can't explain to the dog (or any pet) why you're putting them through a treatement, etc. and generally they don't get but a few months longer. This is a favorite poem of mine. While very sad, I think it speaks volumes.


If it should be that I grow weak
and pain should keep me from my sleep.
Then you must do what must be done,
for this last battle cannot be won.

You will be sad, I understand.
Don't let your grief then stay your hand.
For this day more than all the rest,
your love for me must stand the test.

We've had so many happy years,
what is to come can hold no fears.
You'd not want me to suffer so.
The time has come, please let me go.

Take me where my needs they'll tend
and please stay with me until the end.
Hold me firm and speak to me,
until my eyes no longer see.

I know in time that you will see,
the kindness that you did for me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
from pain and suffering I've been saved.

Please do not grieve it must be you
who had this painful thing to do.
We've been so close, we two, these years.
Don't let your heart hold back its tears.
 

flomaster

J.F. A sus ordenes!
cattitude said:
I'd comfort them but if the dog is in pain, I'd try to convince them to let him go. It's awful, but you can't explain to the dog (or any pet) why you're putting them through a treatement, etc. and generally they don't get but a few months longer.

Totally agree with this. Would break my heart to lose my pup but wouldn't let him suffer. Very sad. Sorry to hear it
 

happyappygirl

Rocky Mountain High!!
she's switched him to a BARF diet and he's getting LOTS of canned mackeral. i haven't said anything to her, because i just don't know how or what to say. i feel so bad for them. they don't have kids, he IS their kid.

Catt, i sent you karma to say thanks, but fat fingered the reply before i could finish. Your Abby-Av is ADORABLE.
 
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baileydog

I wanna be a SMIB
I dont know this family but my heart is breaking for them.May God help them through this journey and I pray for them to have strength. And Catt, Please stop making me cry at my desk.
 

Cowgirl

Well-Known Member
cattitude said:
I'd comfort them but if the dog is in pain, I'd try to convince them to let him go. It's awful, but you can't explain to the dog (or any pet) why you're putting them through a treatement, etc. and generally they don't get but a few months longer. This is a favorite poem of mine. While very sad, I think it speaks volumes.

That was such a great (and very very sad) poem. I kinda skimmed it because if I read it all I will certainly cry. My 'son' is almost 11, and it's so hard watching him get older. He acts younger than his age...but he's still aging. I recently took him to the vet to check out a lump he'd had for a while. Luckily, it's just a fatty lump right now, but the vet said to keep watching it for changes. I don't know what I'll do when he's gone....I hate to even think about it. :bawl:
 
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