What's with all these teachers...

mAlice

professional daydreamer
vraiblonde said:
Okay, is this just me?

Maybe the girl wasn't sure if she imagined it, or if she was overreacting, and the second incident left no doubt. I've certainly had some borderline touch encounters that made me think "hmmm...maybe I just imagined, or maybe it wasn't intentional".

To answer your question, I don't recall anything like this happening when I was in school, nor were there any teachers that I found particularly attractive. They were "eeewwww" to me because they were old.
 

oldman

Lobster Land
I had a male teacher in high school and a friend in the class with me. My friend went to class for a while and then he quit coming, but ended up getting A's for the class on his report card. I was young and really dumb and when asked stayed after class to clap the erasers, I did. Nothing ever happened but my grades improved to A's and B's. The teacher was gone before the end of the school year but why was never published or discussed. Only in retrospect did I figure out what probably happened and what could have happened. Make one really wonder about life. In my senior year I did have at least one young female teacher I would have done - if I'd of only known what to do with it. Back in those days sex was something us boys dreamed and talked about, but it was mostly just dreaming and talking.
 

CMC122

Go Braves!
There was a teacher in my middle school that had been putting the move on girls for 20 years (my aunts and mom had the same teacher as me) Nothing was ever done about it. Soon as my mom saw his name on my schedule she warned me to never ever be alone in or near his classroom. And really she didn't have to warn me because he was creepy as all get out:yay:
 

zimmie

New Member
this has obviously been going on under the careful eye of the administrators. Heck, even old students are talking about him! :wench:
 
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Wenchy

Guest
I had a big crush on my driver's ed teacher, but I don't think he ever knew that, and if he did, he never acted like it. He looked like Christopher Reeves.

Male teachers were nice to me, but they never stepped over the line.
 

Toxick

Splat
vraiblonde said:
I was never sexually approached by a teacher and I don't know anyone who was when I was in school.

Has this ever happened to any of you guys, or anyone at your school?



I was never actually approached by any of my teachers.


But I've always had suspicions that one or two were checking out my tushie when I would be leaving the classroom.
 

riverrat

New Member
I live in Newburg and I know this guy, no idea if this is true or not. But here's the question: Why is it that he's automatically presumed guilty? Chuck county's finest waited almost a year to arrest him? Doesn't sound like they had too much evidence.
 

greyhound

New Member
MargeInCharge said:
For me, yes, in middle school (9th grade in '79). I was having a problem with another girl in class, I got upset and left the room. The teacher followed me into the empty hall, grabbed me by the shoulders to "comfort" me, then pushed me back into the lockers and tried to kiss me. I turned my head quick and all he got was cheek. Then I ran to the office to call my mother. I can't remember what happened about the near-miss kiss, but I know my mother did not want my father to know, because he had a hot temper and probably would have beat the crap out of that teacher. Then at the end of the year when my yearbook was being passed around, he got ahold of it and wrote something creepy in it, something about "words cannot express how I feel about you," or something like that.

Then when I was a junior in highschool in '81, there was another teacher that looking back on it I know was "grooming" me....way too attentive, complimentary, etc. I was so naive....he wanted to take me on a trip to Europe (just the 2 of us), saying, "All you'll need is some spending money, I'll take care of everything else." Heck, that sounded great to me, until I asked my father and he was like, "NO WAY, don't you know what he wants?" I was so young, I was like.....no, what? This teacher talked me into running for a class officer since he was going to be the sponsor the next year (think of all the great times we'll have, he said), so I did and won. Then I started dating my future husband, which the teacher actively discouraged because, "You should have your freedom during your senior year." When I kept dating him, the teacher turned on me and literally would not speak to me by mid-year my senior year. It made the rest of the year very uncomfortable, because he had also arranged for me to be his aide one of my class periods.

Sometime during the year he had a big party at his house, lots of teens there, and he spent a lot of time in his bedroom with another classmate of mine. We were watching movies and not really paying attention til he came out in his ROBE...and we all about died. No question about what they were doing then. He ended up "dating" this 17-yr-old girl the rest of the school year. I'm guessing he was in his 40's or so, and not real attractive, so he had to lure girls in with other things. I believe he gave her diamond earrings for Christmas that year. She would lie to her parents and say she was at a friend's house, when she would really be with him overnight, or over the weekend or whatever.

Anyway, they ended up getting married after she graduated, and last I heard, they are still together. But the whole thing is repulsive, teachers that prey on their students.

I wonder if we went to the same high school...the same thing happened with a girl in my school and they got married. He was a science teacher.
 
MargeInCharge said:
For me, yes, in middle school (9th grade in '79). I was having a problem with another girl in class, I got upset and left the room. The teacher followed me into the empty hall, grabbed me by the shoulders to "comfort" me, then pushed me back into the lockers and tried to kiss me. I turned my head quick and all he got was cheek. Then I ran to the office to call my mother. I can't remember what happened about the near-miss kiss, but I know my mother did not want my father to know, because he had a hot temper and probably would have beat the crap out of that teacher. Then at the end of the year when my yearbook was being passed around, he got ahold of it and wrote something creepy in it, something about "words cannot express how I feel about you," or something like that.

Then when I was a junior in highschool in '81, there was another teacher that looking back on it I know was "grooming" me....way too attentive, complimentary, etc. I was so naive....he wanted to take me on a trip to Europe (just the 2 of us), saying, "All you'll need is some spending money, I'll take care of everything else." Heck, that sounded great to me, until I asked my father and he was like, "NO WAY, don't you know what he wants?" I was so young, I was like.....no, what? This teacher talked me into running for a class officer since he was going to be the sponsor the next year (think of all the great times we'll have, he said), so I did and won. Then I started dating my future husband, which the teacher actively discouraged because, "You should have your freedom during your senior year." When I kept dating him, the teacher turned on me and literally would not speak to me by mid-year my senior year. It made the rest of the year very uncomfortable, because he had also arranged for me to be his aide one of my class periods.

Sometime during the year he had a big party at his house, lots of teens there, and he spent a lot of time in his bedroom with another classmate of mine. We were watching movies and not really paying attention til he came out in his ROBE...and we all about died. No question about what they were doing then. He ended up "dating" this 17-yr-old girl the rest of the school year. I'm guessing he was in his 40's or so, and not real attractive, so he had to lure girls in with other things. I believe he gave her diamond earrings for Christmas that year. She would lie to her parents and say she was at a friend's house, when she would really be with him overnight, or over the weekend or whatever.

Anyway, they ended up getting married after she graduated, and last I heard, they are still together. But the whole thing is repulsive, teachers that prey on their students.

You didn't happen to go to Gwynn Park did you? I know of two teachers that had affairs with one of their students. I know for sure that one of them married her, not sure about the other one.
 

MargeInCharge

New Member
Speedy70 said:
You didn't happen to go to Gwynn Park did you? I know of two teachers that had affairs with one of their students. I know for sure that one of them married her, not sure about the other one.

Yes, this was Gwynn Park. There was one other teacher there that never messed with me (aside from some mild flirting, but he didn't creep me out), but I know he tried to make out with another student in an empty classroom, because the girl told me.
 

Coventry17

New Member
Ehesef said:
He was also released on personal recognizance. Does this bother anyone else? I know people with 10,000 bail set for pot possession...wtf?


It's up to the commissioner to set bail. If the investigation has been going on for this long, it's not like it's been a secret to the teacher. He obviously didn't flee and probably has no prior record. You have the word of a teenager against the word of a respected teacher. The man has a right to earn a living while this is going on and he has the right to presumed innocence. I think it's ironic that the little Indian Head hoodrat accused of murder was allowed to turn herself in, yet Charles County's finest came to this man's job and arrested him, obviously trying to humiliate him and turn the community's opinion against him.
 
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DealWithIt

Guest
flomaster said:
Is there a link this headline. What school. There were only a tiny handful of teachers in my day that I would have liked to hide in the coat closet with but most were the old crabby types.

I loved my English teacher ... she was so darn hot! Unfortunately, she wasn't too interested in this little pre-teen, bellbottom wearing, pimplefaced young man! :tantrum

Hot For Teacher
Van Halen
(1984)

"Oh wow, man !"
"Wait a second man. Whaddaya think the teacher's gonna look like this year ?"
"My butt, man !"
T-T-Teacher stop that screaming, teacher don't you see ?
Don't wanna be no uptown fool.
Maybe I should go to he!!, but I'm doin' well,
teacher needs to see me after school.
Chorus:
I think of all the education that I missed.
But then my homework was never quite like this.
Got it bad, got it bad, got it bad,
I'm hot for teacher.
I got it bad, so bad,
I'm hot for teacher.
spoken:
"Hey, I heard you missed us, we're back !"
"I brought my pencil"
"Gimme something to write on, man"
I heard about your lessons, but lessons are so cold.
I know about this school.
Little girl from cherry lane, how did you get so bold ?
How did you know that golden rule ?
chorus
(guitar solo)
"Oh man, I think the clock is slow"
"I don't feel tardy"
"Class dismissed"
 
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Bronwyn

Guest
I remember that stuff going on when I was in school, but it was never me or my friends!
 

Nickel

curiouser and curiouser
riverrat said:
I live in Newburg and I know this guy, no idea if this is true or not. But here's the question: Why is it that he's automatically presumed guilty? Chuck county's finest waited almost a year to arrest him? Doesn't sound like they had too much evidence.
He wasn't automatically presumed guilty, he was allowed to continue to work in the environment in which the incident(s) occurred for 11 months before he was arrested. During those 11 months, the police obviously collected enough information to lead to an arrest. You can't just arrest people without a reason, and obviously they found a solid one.
 

Coventry17

New Member
Nickel said:
He wasn't automatically presumed guilty, he was allowed to continue to work in the environment in which the incident(s) occurred for 11 months before he was arrested. During those 11 months, the police obviously collected enough information to lead to an arrest. You can't just arrest people without a reason, and obviously they found a solid one.


An arrest doesn't mean he's guilty. Innocent people are charged with crimes all the time, especially in Chuck County.
 

ylexot

Super Genius
Coventry17 said:
An arrest doesn't mean he's guilty.
No, it just means that the police/prosecutor think that they have enough evidence to get a conviction with. Then it's up to the judicial system to determine if they are right.
 

bohman

Well-Known Member
riverrat said:
I live in Newburg and I know this guy, no idea if this is true or not. But here's the question: Why is it that he's automatically presumed guilty? Chuck county's finest waited almost a year to arrest him? Doesn't sound like they had too much evidence.

I can recall a case not too long ago of a father going into school and knocking out a teacher that his daughter had accused of touching her. Video surveillance in the school then showed teacher and student at opposite ends of the building at the time she claimed the incident happened.
 
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