Story:
Monello and I were in Paterson NJ and let me tell you, that is one festering shithole. There is one bright spot in the whole city, and that's a little park with a waterfall, where a very nice young NP ranger gave us some history. I had to ask her: "What bad thing did you do that you got stuck being a park ranger in Hell?" She replied that she's from the area, wants to be close to her family, blah blah blah. She's probably been raped and murdered by now because that's the kind of city Paterson is. But at least she was near her family.
Why in holy hell would you be a park ranger in freaking Paterson NJ when you can be one literally anywhere else in the country? That is an extremely portable career and there are an infinite number of opportunities in some pretty sweet locations.
"Government employee" is also portable - all careers are. If they need your job where you are, they also need it or something similar somewhere else. Therefore nobody is "forced" to do anything. They CHOOSE to do it. They could easily quit and go somewhere nice. If nomad living has taught me anything, it's that there are wonderful opportunities all over this country. So I don't want to hear any twaddle about "wah, I can't!" or "wah, I'm being forced!"
What's happened is that these people are boiling frogs. Oh, another degree.....that's not so bad. You get used to it, and then it's too late.
I understand that my attempt to get people to see a bigger picture is futile. I understand that. There are a million excuses why they "have to" stay in their shitty situation, and nothing I say will inspire them to live their best life. I keep thinking I should just give up, stop harping, think my thoughts about these people and let them be. But Monello and I still tell our story to everyone who'll listen because I know we've inspired at least one person to think outside the box and seek opportunity, and perhaps more than just one.
So I will continue to encourage, and if the "stuck" people are annoyed by that, OFW.
Which is what I think when I see one of these news stories about how some dumbshit is "forced" to inject poison into their veins, or "forced" to engage in extremely racist destructive behavior. OFW.