when you find someone you like...
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Originally posted by janey83
is it healthy to think of the inevitable break-up just 2 months down the road?
I'm starting to get in that habit, seeing as how it's all been the same.
That's normal a sign that person is not the right one for you. I did the same thing before I met TWL.
BuddyLee
Football addict
Originally posted by janey83
is it healthy to think of the inevitable break-up just 2 months down the road?
I'm starting to get in that habit, seeing as how it's all been the same.
I dont think its so healthy but who can be sure about these things you know. Could be good instincts or it could be that you worry too much. I tend to do this a lot as well being that I'm a compulsive worrier. I just wish I'd find that special someone where I know that they are the one after I date them a few times and what not.
Being a youngyin like yourself I'm not sure of what else I can offer you for advice. I believe some on here will more than likely say "you'll know when the time comes" or "he'll just pop up someday". I dont know how this love stuff works out because I dont think I've ever truely been in love. However, if your willing to give me a shot I'd be more than willing to try to be your one and only love forevermore.
SmallTown
Football season!
If it is the guy doing the breakup, if you would just learn the rules about being a good girlfriend, maybe things would last longer. 
If it is you doing the breakup, if you're looking at things this way it means you are always looking for the "next best thing", when in reality you don't know what you're looking for in the first place. Being 21, you have plenty of time to figure that out.
Good luck!
If it is you doing the breakup, if you're looking at things this way it means you are always looking for the "next best thing", when in reality you don't know what you're looking for in the first place. Being 21, you have plenty of time to figure that out.
Good luck!
Chasey_Lane
Salt Life
Any more tips, Martha?Originally posted by cariblue
And girls, if you can pull off all the other stuff, cooking really isn't that important.
SmallTown
Football season!
Originally posted by cariblue
Oh, yeah. I think I remember that.
And girls, if you can pull off all the other stuff, cooking really isn't that important.
Don't underestimate the power of the kitchen. A guy can get his rocks off anywhere from anyone, but only that special someone can satisfy his appetite. The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach, not his ####
But if you have both covered, you're golden
Chasey_Lane
Salt Life
:shrug:Originally posted by cariblue
Like you need a tip.
Chasey_Lane
Salt Life
Sometimes I'd fix you a grilled cheese.Originally posted by SmallTown
See, thats why chasey and I never worked out. Sure, she would turn me into a little drooling b!tch after a long night of passion, but then she would get up and put a pop-tart in the toaster.
SmallTown
Football season!
Originally posted by cariblue
If you're not taking her out to dinner, somebody isn't rocking your world.
I admit, taking a lady out to dinner can be a great move. But it doesn't matter if you go to the most expensive restaurant with the most romantic atmosphere, nothing can compare to a nice home cooked meal as you stare into each other's eyes at your own dining room table.
Plus, you can drink all you want and your only concern is making it upstairs, not across town
Chasey_Lane
Salt Life
Originally posted by cariblue
ST, you have it backwards. Sex first, then food.
Because I can't enjoy a cigarette after sex, food is the next best thing. 
BuddyLee
Football addict
Originally posted by SmallTown
If it is you doing the breakup, if you're looking at things this way it means you are always looking for the "next best thing", when in reality you don't know what you're looking for in the first place. Being 21, you have plenty of time to figure that out.
Good luck!
Interesting point.