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withrespect

withrespect

:wr:
Hello all,

This is a hard question to ask without sounding somewhat desperate... but where in the hell can I meet a decent man around here. I am beginning to feel mildly discouraged because it seems like every man I meet around here is not worth catching feelings for....either they are really handsome, but cocky about it; really nice, but too feminine; "intimidated by me"; or have so much drama that I cant see them fitting me into the mess. :jerry: I just dont know where to meet someone decent, its not like you can really find anyone in a bar who is looking to meet a woman for relationship purposes. I am not trying to complain, and I am not saying that I havent met nice people, I guess I am just looking for a nice guy to spend some time with that doesnt have a baby's mama that will put a bounty out for me if I start dating her "man". :cds: help please.
 
mAlice

mAlice

professional daydreamer
withrespect said:
Hello all,

This is a hard question to ask without sounding somewhat desperate... but where in the hell can I meet a decent man around here. I am beginning to feel mildly discouraged because it seems like every man I meet around here is not worth catching feelings for....either they are really handsome, but cocky about it; really nice, but too feminine; "intimidated by me"; or have so much drama that I cant see them fitting me into the mess. :jerry: I just dont know where to meet someone decent, its not like you can really find anyone in a bar who is looking to meet a woman for relationship purposes. I am not trying to complain, and I am not saying that I havent met nice people, I guess I am just looking for a nice guy to spend some time with that doesnt have a baby's mama that will put a bounty out for me if I start dating her "man". :cds: help please.
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There are a few good candidates on the forums, but I wouldn't recommend weeding through the morons to figure out who they are.
 
morningbell

morningbell

hmmmmmm
There was a ad for pinkcupid.com on the first page of this thread..... I think its's trying to tell you something you may not already know :whistle:
 
I

ishouldhaveknow

New Member
withrespect said:
Hello all,

This is a hard question to ask without sounding somewhat desperate... but where in the hell can I meet a decent man around here. I am beginning to feel mildly discouraged because it seems like every man I meet around here is not worth catching feelings for....either they are really handsome, but cocky about it; really nice, but too feminine; "intimidated by me"; or have so much drama that I cant see them fitting me into the mess. :jerry: I just dont know where to meet someone decent, its not like you can really find anyone in a bar who is looking to meet a woman for relationship purposes. I am not trying to complain, and I am not saying that I havent met nice people, I guess I am just looking for a nice guy to spend some time with that doesnt have a baby's mama that will put a bounty out for me if I start dating her "man". :cds: help please.
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I agree with Church...you would (normally) expect them to have the same values as you. When my Husband and I were dating we always went to church together...It seemed to bring us closer.
 
LateApex

LateApex

New Member
withrespect said:
Hello all,

This is a hard question to ask without sounding somewhat desperate... but where in the hell can I meet a decent man around here. I am beginning to feel mildly discouraged because it seems like every man I meet around here is not worth catching feelings for....either they are really handsome, but cocky about it; really nice, but too feminine; "intimidated by me"; or have so much drama that I cant see them fitting me into the mess. :jerry: I just dont know where to meet someone decent, its not like you can really find anyone in a bar who is looking to meet a woman for relationship purposes. I am not trying to complain, and I am not saying that I havent met nice people, I guess I am just looking for a nice guy to spend some time with that doesnt have a baby's mama that will put a bounty out for me if I start dating her "man". :cds: help please.
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I always chuckle a bit inside when I read these posts.

Honestly, if you have to ask advice from a message board you have more problems than "trying to meet a decent guy/girl."

It's not rocket science.

If you can't attract the right kind of person it's because of you.

The area isn't your problem.

Like many people I know - I've never - ever had a problem meeting people.

Be social. Go out. Meet people.

It's not hard.

You have to feel good about yourself. You have to work on you before you can ever hope to make another person happy.

$.02
 
withrespect

withrespect

:wr:
LateApex said:
I always chuckle a bit inside when I read these posts.

Honestly, if you have to ask advice from a message board you have more problems than "trying to meet a decent guy/girl."

It's not rocket science.

If you can't attract the right kind of person it's because of you.

The area isn't your problem.

Like many people I know - I've never - ever had a problem meeting people.

Be social. Go out. Meet people.

It's not hard.

You have to feel good about yourself. You have to work on you before you can ever hope to make another person happy.

$.02
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I never said I was perfect either. For all you know I could be someone who is very phisically unattractive with a personality straight from the pit of hell. I was merely asking where a B*tch with problems like myself could meet someone nice. Thank you for your input and have a lovely day.
 
migtig

migtig

aka Mrs. Giant
withrespect said:
I never said I was perfect either. For all you know I could be someone who is very phisically unattractive with a personality straight from the pit of hell. I was merely asking where a B*tch with problems like myself could meet someone nice. Thank you for your input and have a lovely day.
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:roflmao: I like you.

Honestly, it was when I stopped looking that I found the right person.

But always attend all the stupid boring social events that you never thought you would - the more people you meet, especially through other people, the better the odds of meeting someone you are compatible with.
 
mAlice

mAlice

professional daydreamer
withrespect said:
I never said I was perfect either. For all you know I could be someone who is very phisically unattractive with a personality straight from the pit of hell. I was merely asking where a B*tch with problems like myself could meet someone nice. Thank you for your input and have a lovely day.
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:roflmao:

Welcome to the forums!
 
4d2008

4d2008

New Member
withrespect said:
I never said I was perfect either. For all you know I could be someone who is very phisically unattractive with a personality straight from the pit of hell. I was merely asking where a B*tch with problems like myself could meet someone nice. Thank you for your input and have a lovely day.
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:howdy:
 
Beta84

Beta84

They're out to get us
migtig said:
:roflmao: I like you.

Honestly, it was when I stopped looking that I found the right person.

But always attend all the stupid boring social events that you never thought you would - the more people you meet, especially through other people, the better the odds of meeting someone you are compatible with.
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:yeahthat: I had a tough time meeting people before I got on the forums actually. Started chattering with people on here, started going to events that were being held, met people, and then ended up meeting people I liked. There are plenty of single people in their 20's and 30's that go to the group outings posted on these boards. Not all of them are great, but it might another place to try.

just sharing my own experience :smile:
 
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