You should get out more on the interwebz. There are whole channels that are devoted to male/female relationships, dating, marriage, and divorce (as well as cheating, and so on).
I had a mobile veterinarian that would come to my house when my last pet was too ill to go to the office any longer. Every time she came her vet tech (woman) would ask me if I was married. No, I'm divorced. Then she would ask if I had a girlfriend? No, not right now. Then she said Oh, you have a maid? No, I clean my own home. Maybe she was hinting at something
She said well if you don't want to tell me it's really none of my business, but I've never seen a man in a house this clean. I just said thank you.
I knew a couple women that were the biggest slobs ever, I'm talking dirty underwear on the couch, apple cores under the bed and even an old tuna salad sandwich in the bathroom. Even witnessed used feminine hygiene products laying around on one occasion.
Straight up, she's mostly right. Men don't value the things women value - like tidiness, and punctuality,
and yet my wife said the place was disgusting because there was dust on top of the refrigerator or behind the microwave.