You don't need to change the minister for the wedding. There are many female ministers.pixiegirl said:It says this in the bible? I don't recall ever hearing this before. Is someone just trying to feed me a line? 2A, help please!
I had a female minister.bresamil said:You don't need to change the minister for the wedding. There are many female ministers.
One of the passages that is often used is:pixiegirl said:It says this in the bible? I don't recall ever hearing this before. Is someone just trying to feed me a line? 2A, help please!
Another is:1 Timothy 3:1-3
1It is a trustworthy statement: if any man aspires to the office of overseer, it is a fine work he desires to do.
2An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,
3not addicted to wine or pugnacious, but gentle, peaceable, free from the love of money.
And still one more:1 Timothy 2:11-15
11A woman must quietly receive instruction with entire submissiveness.
12But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet.
13For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve.
14And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression.
15But women will be preserved through the bearing of children if they continue in faith and love and sanctity with self-restraint.
Modern congregations have departed from the organization of the early congregations. Notice that the leader or head of the congregation was called an overseer, not a minister. All Christians are to minister to people. So from scripture, I would say that it is proper in a strict sense that women not be the head of a congregation. But bear in mind that God uses who He uses when He needs them, where He needs them, and for His purpose. If He chooses a woman to lead a congregation, so be it. God has used many women throughout the Bible; pious ones and prostitutes.Titus 1:5-9
5For this reason I left you in Crete, that you would set in order what remains and appoint elders in every city as I directed you,
6namely, if any man is above reproach, the husband of one wife, having children who believe, not accused of dissipation or rebellion.
7For the overseer must be above reproach as God's steward, not self-willed, not quick-tempered, not addicted to wine, not pugnacious, not fond of sordid gain,
8but hospitable, loving what is good, sensible, just, devout, self-controlled,
9holding fast the faithful word which is in accordance with the teaching, so that he will be able both to exhort in sound doctrine and to refute those who contradict.
bresamil said:You don't need to change the minister for the wedding. There are many female ministers.
Good for you!!pixiegirl said:The thought NEVER crossed my mind! I was told that a family member would be none too happy that a woman would be marrying us since the bible states that a woman should not be a preacher, minister or the like. My reaction was simple that if said person had such a problem with it that they were free to RSVP that they would not attend. There is NO WAY I'm changing, the venue, minister, etc.
You and your husband to be are the ones that must be happy with the choice of venue and uniting.pixiegirl said:The thought NEVER crossed my mind! I was told that a family member would be none too happy that a woman would be marrying us since the bible states that a woman should not be a preacher, minister or the like. My reaction was simple that if said person had such a problem with it that they were free to RSVP that they would not attend. There is NO WAY I'm changing, the venue, minister, etc.
2ndAmendment said:You and your husband to be are the ones that must be happy with the choice of venue and uniting.
pixiegirl said:And we both VERY much are.