As a new transplant to Breezy Point, Calvert County, SOMD on account of my wife's career I have a few insights I would like to share:
1) Not everybody likes to drive 1.5+ hours to work. We moved from Buffalo where I used to bike to work (20 min), walk to my friends' and families' houses, grocery store, park, riverfront, etc. Sure do miss that.
2) Housing is NOT expensive everywhere in the country. Here's an example, a home we were looking to purchase in Buffalo was 2000 sq. ft. (not including basement) and simply needed a new roof -- $60K. With all the money that's left over, we can fly to wherever we want on vacation to escape the winter blues. There are many such opportunities like this in Buffalo and other areas in the country. Maybe the weather's not the greatest in the winter, but how much time do you spend outdoors anyhow? Also, has anyone heard of a jacket/boots/gloves/scarf, skiing, snow-shoeing, hiking?
3) Affordable housing. I pay $750 rent for a 23X23 house, utilities extra. I've been told that this is cheap! I honestly don't see how anyone making minimum wage or something close to that could afford these prices and still have any money left over. BTW min wage approx 6/hr X 60 hr/wk X 50 wk/yr = 18K / yr.
4) Local professional job opportunities are next to none. As a mechanical engineer who is on the cusp of US citizenship, (interview in May, Canadian born and thus currently ineligible for defense / govt employment), Lexington Park is out, all the defense contractors are out, what does this leave me with? Precious little except a 1.5+ hour drive to DC/or DC burbs.
5) Finally, I think there are nice points about living down here. For those of you who don't mind the commute, being stuck in traffic, dumping hundred of gallons of gas into your car every year, working in defense, paying way too much for everything, BULLY FOR YOU, I mean that. If you've found something you like, and can live with that, GREAT, more power to you.
As for me, SOMD has been a bust. I'm looking forward to the day when I sign my rental truck agreement to pack our stuff and get out of here.
Just as a note. There seems to be a lot of the, "I-got-mine-now-you-get-yours" mentality by those who "have". I'm not greedy, my wife makes in the mid 20's and we are struggling, but still comfortable. However, I ask those who are professional, or otherwise well endowed, have you considered why it is that your skills and education entitle you to a higher wage than others? This is to say, why is your labor/time more valuable than others?
I'm not necessarily advocating socialism, or other forms of equitable distribution of wealth. Nor am I suggesting that those who "have" didn't work hard for their keep. But there are a lot of people who work HARD and can just make ends meet. Why is it that a merit based society is our model for an equitable civilization? Consider the ramifications of a merit-based society. Doesn't such a society invariably require that valuation and associated commodification of human resources beget an ugly kind of social darwinism? How much different is an arbitrary valuation of merit than an an arbitrary valuation of an inherent physical characteristic?
Just ask yourselves this question. If you were laid off tomorrow, and your skill set was no longer considered a commodity (e.g. you were a buggy whip manufacturer on the crux of the automobile age and didn't make the transition quickly enough) and the competition was quite keen for the "valued" skill sets which you currently do not posess, should you be penalized as a result of your choice of career/interest?
Regards to all.