The Dude
You mean coitus?
You know, years ago I had this problem when I was in the Va Beach area.
Well, bcp, I did yell a couple very unlady like words, but not the N word. This african-american kid pretends to be deaf. He keeps his hoodie on his head and, obviously, thinks he is invincible.
I guess, my best bet is the bull!!! And he's always hot to trot - doesn't like males of any kind because he thinks they will take "time" away from his females.
He may be wearing headphones and may not be able to hear you. I know it doesn't help your problem, but he just may not notice with the music jamming...