kwillia
n/a
So that leaves you, a man with multiple marriages under his belt and decades of dating experience asking your ex how much 1st date conversation should matter in deciding whether there should be a second date...
How are you still single?
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How are you still single?
Larry Gude
Strung Out
So that leaves you, a man with multiple marriages under his belt and decades of dating experience asking your ex how much 1st date conversation should matter in deciding whether there should be a second date...
How are you still single?
Put another way, after proving out my way doesn't work too well, I'm asking an educated opinion of not only someone whose opinion I respect but, who knows me very well.
I could be un-single right now but, I'm trying to being a little more thought out and deliberate about it.
SoMD_Fun_Guy
Do you like apples?
Larry,
my $.02 worth: from what you said, it sounds like the only thing troubling you was the conversation. Maybe it was just that day. I vote that the 2 of you go out again (something different this time) and see how it goes. If you still get the same feeling then maybe your hunch was right. Sometimes all it takes is 1 date to know whether you wanna see someone again or not, sometimes it takes more than 1 date. It sounds to me that you are on the fence with her. So go out again, have a good time and tell us about it when you get back.
my $.02 worth: from what you said, it sounds like the only thing troubling you was the conversation. Maybe it was just that day. I vote that the 2 of you go out again (something different this time) and see how it goes. If you still get the same feeling then maybe your hunch was right. Sometimes all it takes is 1 date to know whether you wanna see someone again or not, sometimes it takes more than 1 date. It sounds to me that you are on the fence with her. So go out again, have a good time and tell us about it when you get back.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
That's what I was looking for.
Sure....just blow my free house suggestion right off.
Christy
b*tch rocket
I tend to think, if you're not feeling it, you're not feeling it, and it's highly unlikely that you ever will. Larry is no spring chicken and the clock is a ticking, so why waste valuable time on pursuing someone that you're really not that into? :shrug:
PJay
Well-Known Member
please no. Larry shares more than I wanna know. A few on this forum do.
I just do not understand why people tell the whole world their private stuff.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Near as I can tell, she was married to a man. That seems to be a common problem.... :shrug:
Larry Gude
Strung Out
She's got her own house. Plus, it seems I'm OK at peaceful, civil break ups. :shrug:
Larry Gude
Strung Out
If maintenance is kept up, I have no issue with miles.
Misfit
Lawful neutral
Mechanically sound is good, but sometimes someone’s messed with the wiring and you just never get it fixed right. I guess that’s why we test drive & there’s a lemon law.
Larry Gude
Strung Out
Mechanically sound is good, but sometimes someone’s messed with the wiring and you just never get it fixed right. I guess that’s why we test drive & there’s a lemon law.
Hey, man. I don't know how they work. I'm just a driver... :shrug:
Near as I can tell, she was married to a man. That seems to be a common problem.... :shrug:
Mere coincidence.
Misfit
Lawful neutral
Larry Gude
Strung Out
See, that is my old MO; no 'thing'? No point. Therefore, the idea of trying a different approach.
Christy
b*tch rocket
Meh, nothing wrong with your old approach. Like all things, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. Why torture yourself by trying stuff that you don't particularly like?
Larry Gude
Strung Out
This is not torture. I had hoped it would be interesting and informative and a little fun but, Vrai won't come out and play.