I posted this as a reply to the other potty training thread, but wanted to pose it as it's own thread. . .
My daughter just turned 3 in March and flat out REFUSES to potty train. I actually have been working from home this week to take the time I don't normally have the luxury of having to spend with her to use the potty. She is aware that she needs to go -and if she's wearing panties will request a diaper that she would promptly remove when she was finished. I started on Saturday by telling her that we didn't have any diapers and that I didn't haveany money to buy her any so she would just have to use the potty.
She was okay with that - but never once used the potty. She stayed dry during the night, but then woke up and peed on my couch because she refused to sit on the potty. Monday night we had a small break through - in that she started to sit on the potty - at one point she started to pee on the floor and I lifted her up on the potty so she could finish. She was very upset, but I stressed that that was what was supposed to happen and gave her a sticker and lollipop for her effort.
Tuesday morning she sat on the potty for 2 hours (she actually had a red ring around her butt from sitting so long - and it was't forced by me - she just really had to go!) then stood up and peed on the floor.
I've tried everything I can think of - food coloring so she could watch it change colors, rewards, even taking things from her and making her change herself and clean up her own messes. And she has every kind of toilet known to man. I've asked her why she won't go and she says it's scary! Yet, she plays with her dolls, takes them potty, wipes their butts and flushes the toilet!
One of my bigger concerns with her is that she's holding it for so long - sometimes for 12 - 14 hours at a time! When she goes to daycare, they encourage her to wear panties, and she will, but she won't pee all day long!
So, potty training experts, what do you suggest in this situation?
My daughter just turned 3 in March and flat out REFUSES to potty train. I actually have been working from home this week to take the time I don't normally have the luxury of having to spend with her to use the potty. She is aware that she needs to go -and if she's wearing panties will request a diaper that she would promptly remove when she was finished. I started on Saturday by telling her that we didn't have any diapers and that I didn't haveany money to buy her any so she would just have to use the potty.
She was okay with that - but never once used the potty. She stayed dry during the night, but then woke up and peed on my couch because she refused to sit on the potty. Monday night we had a small break through - in that she started to sit on the potty - at one point she started to pee on the floor and I lifted her up on the potty so she could finish. She was very upset, but I stressed that that was what was supposed to happen and gave her a sticker and lollipop for her effort.
Tuesday morning she sat on the potty for 2 hours (she actually had a red ring around her butt from sitting so long - and it was't forced by me - she just really had to go!) then stood up and peed on the floor.
I've tried everything I can think of - food coloring so she could watch it change colors, rewards, even taking things from her and making her change herself and clean up her own messes. And she has every kind of toilet known to man. I've asked her why she won't go and she says it's scary! Yet, she plays with her dolls, takes them potty, wipes their butts and flushes the toilet!
One of my bigger concerns with her is that she's holding it for so long - sometimes for 12 - 14 hours at a time! When she goes to daycare, they encourage her to wear panties, and she will, but she won't pee all day long!
So, potty training experts, what do you suggest in this situation?