For the record, we are not dumb. Most of us are in college trying to be smarter than the idiots we serve at our restaurant. And trust me, some customers are just downright idiotic. Secondly, the reference photos for plate presentation are there because we're required by corporate to display them. Trust me, nobody looks at them. Ever.
Now to my main point-- if you have specific dietary concerns, it is not the responsibility of a restaurant to accommodate you. In fact, it is your sole responsibility to accommodate yourself. Eating out is a luxury, NOT a privilege. You'll save yourself a lot of money and calories by eating and entertaining in your own home. Also, why do people expect chain restaurants to display nutrition facts on their menus, but not local restaurants? Do you really think a porterhouse cooked at a chain restaurant is going to have more calories than at a local steakhouse? If that's information that's important to you, take the responsibility to research it yourself. I have an app on my smartphone that I use when I'm dieting. It allows me to browse and search any menu item at practically any chain restaurant and view the nutritional content of each item.
Don't be lazy, don't expect the world to wait on you hand and foot to accommodate your every 21st-century crackpot WebMD "ailments." A disability is just that-- a disability. You're disabled. You're not able to do certain things. Get over it. Embrace it. The solutions to your problems are right under your nose; stop relying on others and take the initiative to resolve them yourself.