Recent content by Unosmom

OH SURE! they are willing to help until you mention Special Needs Child! Then everyone disappears! Or haven't you figured it, most of us parents with needs children are treated like we have some type of fungus. When you are finished being ugly and can be a human again you let me know. But...

And this is the reason why i don't normally post anything. I just thought I give it a try and see if it changed. It Hasn't!

I have TRIED All those places!!!!!!! And if you all think I can get this Doo Doo for free you are on the wrong Freakn' Planet! I don't have Money coming out my Butt! Obviously you all do! So unless you are willing to offer your services for free I don't want to hear about how I'm screwing...

Also, in regards to your older daughter, maybe social services can send a therapist or recommend a program your older daughter can attend to give you a break. I have a friend in Delaware that has a severly disables oldest child and they would send her a therapist to work with her once a week or...

The 6 year old is very very active in helping out with the olest. She even helps take care of her baby sister from time to time. Now I am not saying that she enjoys doing it, because she will pitch a total fit over it, but she will do it. I too love the fact that she alot like me. But...

I know this is going to sound stupid, but, what are they going to help me with? That is if some-one was willing to help. Maybe I just dense this morning, Not enough coffee yet. :confused:

[ I don't know how your daughter was when she was younger, but my son was very violent. Had to do time outs with him in his bedroom and physically hold him down to keep him from hurting himself or someone else. Autism is a lifetime commitment, but then you knew that. Yes, have gone...

Our church offers the oldest child special sunday school studies, but for dealing with the 6 year old there really is nothing there. Thanks for the idea though!

Thanks for the input! The only family near by is my sister-n-law. But, she is very very pregnant right now. She is having issues with hers! I don''t want her stressing anymore than she needs to right now. As for anyone else, NO! My parents are totally worthless when it comes to that...

What you all fail to inderstand is that she is one of 3. My oldest is a Special Needs Child, and takes alot of my time, and she will always need that. Go back and read!!!! What the middlechild is doing it totally unacceptable. I am just totally exhausted! Dealing with the oldest child is...

I guess you are right. I will just have to follow through with it even if we lose the deposit. Thanks for the advise that everyone has given me. PM me if you know any other tricks that will help me deal with this child.

Been there, Done that. She takes that to be a cue as to things are alright now. Now if Daddy was to do that it is another ballgame. I'm telling ya all it's gotta be me. We just butt heads all the time anymore. Maybe she is all excited about her birthday this week and her Party that she...

My baby did that about the time of her 4th birthday. She quickly got over it too! Not sure what caused it, but I took her into my lap and rocked her for about 5 minutes and then it was over. She was back to being her happy go lucky self. :banana:

We have done all those! And you are right, she is a very sociable creature. Ususally after going to her room she comes right back out and tell me she is sorry. Now mind you, she walked into her room turned around and came back out to tell me this. When you ask her why she was sent there she...