Now I am wondering.
what if it was a total forum thing,
we rent a hall, get a pay as you go bar thingy in there with a catered meal, after dinner we have a DJ for dancing (disk Jockey) I happen to know a good one that might just donate some time for this.
The hall we might be able to get free or at reduced cost since we are doing a charity thing, try to keep food to 30 or under per person.
we give in the name of SOMD.Com. its a win for everyone.
if needed, I and Im sure other fat guys would be willing to go around dressed like Santa bringing gifts to families in need.
It could be a great party. (Gaga will have to be played so Bann And I can share our dance for everyone's viewing pleasure)