My daughter felt the same way...but boy was I ready to be a grandmother..and by the way, it was a boy..he is about 14 months old now...
And she ( my daughter ) is doing a great job, and so is the baby's father...
Were you ready to be a mother? Did you plan all 3 of your kids? I know I sure as hell didn't plan my 2. We don't know the situation at all so passing judgement is in bad taste.