Another fun mating ritual thread for the ladies

vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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So let's say you're sitting at a table with 3 girlfriends and a guy comes up and asks one of you to dance**. She turns him down for whatever reason. He then asks one of the other women to dance, and she turns him down.

At that point shouldn't he just walk away instead of going down the rest of the line?

Even if woman #3 or #4 would have danced with him, there's no way they can accept now. They're 3rd and 4th choice. Losers. Leftovers.

The only way either of them could go dance with the guy is if he's a major dork and they're feeling sorry for him. "C'mon, I'll dance with you..."

The dating scene is fraught with peril.

** This is a guy you don't know - if it's a guy in your group of friends, he can ask whoever whenever and it's all good.
 
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vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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Now Italian Scallion will come on here with advice on how I can get a guy to ask me to dance.

:lmao:
 
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vraiblonde said:
Now Italian Scallion will come on here with advice on how I can get a guy to ask me to dance.

:lmao:
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Nah; You know I'd tell you to go over and ask him to dance...:drummer:

Besides, his technique is all wrong and has :loser: written all over it. He should send over a drink to the girl he likes. :cool:
 
Bann

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vraiblonde said:
So let's say you're sitting at a table with 3 girlfriends and a guy comes up and asks one of you to dance**. She turns him down for whatever reason. He then asks one of the other women to dance, and she turns him down.

At that point shouldn't he just walk away instead of going down the rest of the line?

Even if woman #3 or #4 would have danced with him, there's no way they can accept now. They're 3rd and 4th choice. Losers. Leftovers.

The only way either of them could go dance with the guy is if he's a major dork and they're feeling sorry for him. "C'mon, I'll dance with you..."

The dating scene is fraught with peril.

** This is a guy you don't know - if it's a guy in your group of friends, he can ask whoever whenever and it's all good.
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Yes - he should but...did he?
 
GWguy

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He should stop after the first turn down, using that approach.

A better approach would be to smile, walk up and ask all of them at once if any of them wanted to dance, don't single them out. If they all say no, no one is a loser. If one says yes, the ice is broken and a conversation can be taken up with any of them, including the intended "target".
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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Gents, let me gift this tip to you:

Scope the room. See the girl who is dancing in her seat, looking interested and like she wants to, well, dance? THAT is the girl you ask. Not the fab chick sneering into her dirty martini - she is a shoot down waiting to happen.

You go up to her and say, "YOU are a girl who looks like she wants to dance." Then you take her hand and lead her onto the floor.

EZPZ.

Although the cutest guy I've ever known, who is still a good friend some 20 years later, came over to our table and said, "Is this seat taken?" I glared at him and said, "Yes, as a matter of fact it is." He sat down anyway, then proceeded to charm the #### out of my girlfriends until they invited him out to Perkins with us and gave him my phone number. Love him and he is the bounceboard I mentioned in the other thread. But you have to have major nads to pull something like that off.
 
bcp

bcp

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Its all part of pairing up level of loser.
Its a good way to make a close to perfect match

or he was drunk
 
DEEKAYPEE8569

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Just walk up to your intended "target" and say, "I like your face," and depending on the response you get, say more words. :shrug:
 
migtig

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It's a percentage game. As a former bartender, I've seen many a guy do this, with decent success. Odds are actually in his favor that there is one female in the group who will take pity and give him a dance because it is the nice thing to do which gets him at the table -OR- there is one in the group that has a lower self-esteem and is desperate -OR- there is one who is drunk enough to believe he has confidence and charm and is cute. The man hasn't wasted any extra effort, and he's not spent any money. If he gets shot down, he moves on to the next group to try his luck. It's also not about getting a chance to know a woman or date her, it's about hook-ups.
 
Pete

Pete

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I would walk up and ask generally if any of them would like to dance and not specify which one, then pray that Bertha's ugly half sister Agnes who is there doesn't answer first.
 
warneckutz

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DEEKAYPEE8569 said:
Just walk up to your intended "target" and say, "I like your face," and depending on the response you get, say more words. :shrug:
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:single4life:

You are quite the ladies man.
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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migtig said:
It's also not about getting a chance to know a woman or date her, it's about hook-ups.
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:dingding:

That's what's so insulting about it.

Hey, wanna screw?
Um, no.
Oh. How about your friend? She wanna screw?

That's how it comes off.
 
Gilligan

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GWguy said:
He should stop after the first turn down, using that approach.

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Exactly! 100% agree. I got shot down like that once and never, ever asked a woman to dance again.

That was in...about 1977 or '78, I believe it was.
 
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