Oppositional Defiance Disorder, is when they are to the extreme of difant to uncontrollable,
My daughter has been through, 4 assesments with the Ocupational therapy doctor, Had allergy testing, had an assesment throught the Clinical, Nueroological behavioral Pediatrition, all at Childerns, all done since 1999. they went through all that b4 medications. In addition she has PICA (which is where you eat non food substances, like glue, dirt, sand, etc..abundance of it) She developed that due to a bone marrow virus she got at 18 months old, her body when too long with a vitamen difficiency, and that is what caused it. She was in Childrens for 2 months!
Not to be rude, I know what I have to do as a mother and to treat my child and what is best for my child. I don't need to here any negativity on what I have choose to do with her. All I need is another mother to talk to that has a child with the same probs as mine, I just need to know that there are other mothers out there that deal with what I deal with...support group kinda thing!
Forgive me - I'm used to people like my moron neighbors, who've all got their kids drugged up, and my daughter's teacher, who thought she might have ADHD because she wrote notes to friends during math. 
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