Nope, not out to get everything I can possibly get. I just want to get this done equitably and be over with so I can move on with things...like buying a house (can't even do that since by MD law that could be considered "marital property" since MD doesn't really recognize legal separation as anything more than an agreement...you are still considered married until final divorce is granted). And by equitably, I'm not asking for everything that I can legally get...just what is fair to me based on our circumstances. Which is being MORE than fair to him. Thanks!!