That doesn't matter... if the woman considers herself to be that close of friend to him, she will send him a wedding present and she will accept that fact that if she wants to remain friends with him, the wife now takes priority in his life over her. :shrug:
I'm the weirdo who got a shower for the second child, but not the first. When I was pregnant with Doug, we had just moved to GA and I didn't really know anyone except my husband's Army buddies. Those bastards didn't throw me a shower.
When I was pregnant with Kyle I had a cluster of girlfriends who showered me.
I think it's rude to expect a shower for anything, or to throw your own. A shower is a gift, not a right.
Wow... sounds pretty one-sided. I guess that works for dating, but I would think if you wanted a committed and serious relationship with him you'd eventually bump him to the top of your priority list.
That's great, and it is normal, that he accepts your friends, but what if one of them really rubs him the wrong way? What if feels one of them continuously crosses the line and he isn't comfortable with that... you wouldn't take his feelings into account... it would be your way or the highway? :shrug:
My husband would knock him out cold and I wouldnt expect any less from him...if one of them was stupid enough to walk up and wag his penis in my face. As long as I don't do anything with it, we're fine. It's called trust.
My husband would knock him out cold and I wouldnt expect any less from him...
of course it should. You are only truly a newlywed once. A bridal shower is meant for a new bride that in theory doesn't have a toaster or a blender or towels, etc. and so she is showered with gifts to help her get started. It's rather rude for a woman to expect her family and friends to gift her with new stuff just because she f'd up the first time around.
