This post http://forums.somd.com/showthread.php?t=50745 got me thinking and I was wondering what experienced parents think about this dilemma:
Let's say you have two daughters. One is a very much a girly-girl the other is the opposite and borderline aggressive. The girly-girl wants to take ballet while the other DD wants to take karate. Your concern is that may tend them toward extremes. Do you let them do what they like or do you make the agressive DD take ballet and the girly-girl take karate to balance them out a bit better?
Let's say you have two daughters. One is a very much a girly-girl the other is the opposite and borderline aggressive. The girly-girl wants to take ballet while the other DD wants to take karate. Your concern is that may tend them toward extremes. Do you let them do what they like or do you make the agressive DD take ballet and the girly-girl take karate to balance them out a bit better?