NorthBeachPerso
Honorary SMIB
If they could do the math they would know that the odds are not in their favor in sports or music! Having a dream to play in the NBA, NHL, NFL, MLB is a great thing to aspire to but having realistic goals usually pays better!
You know that, and I know that, but there's a lot of magical thinking that occurs.
I had a kid one year who couldn't even make the high school team, too short, bad grades (1.0), little ability. Yet he was convinced he was going to be a walk on at Georgetown. His parents, yes 2 of them, encouraged and supported him in that belief.
Since that was going to happen there was no reason to do anything in school. He'd make the team and his future was set.
That's just one example out of hundreds I saw in a 30+ plus year career in a middle/upper middle class high school.
As a note, in that time we had exactly two kids go to the NFL and one who made it to either AA or AAA baseball. None to the NBA although we did have a girl who played in the European women's basketball league.