pixiegirl said:At what age do you think it's ok to let a child have access to these?
And NO... I'm not getting my child either. I'm just cusious as to what the general consensus is as to what age it's ok to let them play with such things.
pixiegirl said:At what age do you think it's ok to let a child have access to these?
And NO... I'm not getting my child either. I'm just cusious as to what the general consensus is as to what age it's ok to let them play with such things.
Just make sure to let him that it is only for shooting your friends; not birds, toads, cats etc.pixiegirl said:At what age do you think it's ok to let a child have access to these?
And NO... I'm not getting my child either. I'm just cusious as to what the general consensus is as to what age it's ok to let them play with such things.
pixiegirl said:What about totally supervised?
That adult is a douche.pixiegirl said:Ok, so to get to the real situation... Over the weekend an adult let my 5 year old play with a bb gun, totally supervised. I'm tweaked for a couple of reasons. #1 I wasn't asked if this was ok beforehand, #2 I think 5 is too young and #3 said adult didn't tell me about it, my son did. And just so no one thinks it's daddy and I'm just being the mean ex; it wasn't his dad.
5 is too youngpixiegirl said:Ok, so to get to the real situation... Over the weekend an adult let my 5 year old play with a bb gun, totally supervised. I'm tweaked for a couple of reasons. #1 I wasn't asked if this was ok beforehand, #2 I think 5 is too young and #3 said adult didn't tell me about it, my son did. And just so no one thinks it's daddy and I'm just being the mean ex; it wasn't his dad.
pixiegirl said:Ok, so to get to the real situation... Over the weekend an adult let my 5 year old play with a bb gun, totally supervised. I'm tweaked for a couple of reasons. #1 I wasn't asked if this was ok beforehand, #2 I think 5 is too young and #3 said adult didn't tell me about it, my son did. And just so no one thinks it's daddy and I'm just being the mean ex; it wasn't his dad.
pixiegirl said:Ok, so to get to the real situation... Over the weekend an adult let my 5 year old play with a bb gun, totally supervised. I'm tweaked for a couple of reasons. #1 I wasn't asked if this was ok beforehand, #2 I think 5 is too young and #3 said adult didn't tell me about it, my son did. And just so no one thinks it's daddy and I'm just being the mean ex; it wasn't his dad.
i started my son with a bb gun at, 7 under adult supervision. He will not touch the gun without me present. The bad part is you didn't get told about it first. so someone needs a for not telling yapixiegirl said:At what age do you think it's ok to let a child have access to these?
And NO... I'm not getting my child either. I'm just cusious as to what the general consensus is as to what age it's ok to let them play with such things.
Larry Gude said:...adult? I mean, I don't want anyone letting my 5 year old touch a weapon without my BEING there, let alone them taking that on responsibility themselves. They seem to have some sort of comfort level of what is or is not OK with you and they did have your kid, so, what gives?
pixiegirl said:Over the weekend an adult let my 5 year old play with a bb gun, totally supervised. I'm tweaked for a couple of reasons. #1 I wasn't asked if this was ok beforehand, #2 I think 5 is too young and #3 said adult didn't tell me about it, my son did.
pixiegirl said:My ex MIL. As most of us know, bio daddy is AWOL (thank God). I still maintain a relationship with his family and let the ex MIL have the boy on occasion. She and I get along fine BUT this is one thing in a long list where I feel she has overstepped her bounds. She had the boy last Saturday and kept him overnight. I got him back yesterday evening and she said not one word about him shooting bb/pellet guns but on the way home I heard all about it. I haven't brought the issue up with her yet as I want to think about it and not knee jerk. But, I'm not happy about it.
pixiegirl said:This is also coupled with the fact that bio daddy has been completely gone/no contact for a year now. It was HIS bb gun. Ex MIL and I don't see eye to eye on the boy forgetting about his sperm donor. I'm almost inclined to think that this was an attempt to passively bring bio daddy into boy's forethought. He doesn't talk about him anymore so let's give him something to remind him of his daddy.... IT very well may not be the case but she has been upfront about her opinion of me hoping he'll eventually forget the POS that fathered him.