This is exactly why I never wanted to work in OB and avoided it at all costs when they had a need for a tech, I volunteered to go to the pysch ward..and would pick it over OB any day of the week.. Annoying ass new mothers who are mad that they are in pain. Suck it up. Women used to go work in the fields..go sit on a stool to give birth wrap the damn thing up and then go hoe some more corn. that sounds like a "terrible birth experience" And the nurse probably seemed unfriendly because you sound like a "demanding" (read
ain in the ass) patient. Perhaps you are suffering from post partum depression andare looking for something to blame your feelings on..try seeing a doc or support group..it may make you feel better..in all seriousness..often women who deal with depression look for a "reason" why they are feeling the way they do..blaming the birth or complications, or the doc is common. Do yourself and your child a favor and get some help if you aren't feeling "right"
As for why there are more c-sections thesedays..duh. ambulance chasers are now joined by stroller chasers. Docs are afraid of taking any risk anymore and opt for the c-section if things even get remotely hairy.
Couldn't pay me to work in OB. I will take the crazies any day.