If you want to make marriage a religious thing then keep it in the church and pass no laws regarding it.
But then Some enthusiastic enterprising individual will eventually sue the Government for recognizing and playing a part into the religious aspects of Marriage, you have to get permission from the Government to be allowed to participate in this Religious event.
If you want marriage to be a government issue then you must allow equal rights.
Personally, I'm not against it on a religious level. Whatever the courts decide means nothing to the religious ceremony. I'm personally against it on a few different levels, one being the definitions of the words "husband", "wife", and "marriage". Until very recently, the definitions of these words have been naturally (pun intended) heterosexual in nature, with "wife" necessitating being female in gender, "husband" male, etc. Homosexuals represent about 2% of the population, and changing the definitions of the words for no good reason to 98% of the population is absurd.
As far as rights go, before this usurpation of public intent on the CA Supreme Court's part, homosexuals had a reasonable law giving them all of "rights" they seek:
FoxNews said:
The California case did not present the question of whether same-sex couples were entitled to any legal recognition of their relationships. That question had already been settled by the legislators, who established a domestic partnership law which provided same-sex couples with virtually all the rights and privileges of marriage, including the ability to make medical decisions, file joint state tax returns, and change surnames. The question before the court was therefore more modest: Does restriction of the title “marriage” to opposite sex couples violate the state constitution?
So, the whole point of the lawsuit was the word "marriage", and how (to further quote the article quoting the lawsuit)
Doing what once quaintly was thought to be the work of legislators, the court makes quick work of the task of weighing the relative importance of maintaining a traditional definition of marriage against denying same-sex couples the right to have their relationships accorded the “dignity and equal respect” afforded traditional families. It finds the justifications for maintaining even the label of marriage for traditional opposite-sex couples wanting.
So, it seems what I said previously really holds true - the intent is not the "rights" they seek (and already have). The intent is legally forced social acceptance. Just doesn't seem appropriate.