Call me "Old Fashion"

redneck_woman

Starting Over
Oh. And it hasn't been said yet?

No, they have taken things very slow. They both have kids and have taken things one day at a time. Done the whole friend thing first and built a relationship from there. I think they make a great couple and she is the happiest I have seen her in a while. She was in a bad married several yrs ago, has been single for about 4 yrs.
 

sockgirl77

Well-Known Member
No, they have taken things very slow. They both have kids and have taken things one day at a time. Done the whole friend thing first and built a relationship from there. I think they make a great couple and she is the happiest I have seen her in a while. She was in a bad married several yrs ago, has been single for about 4 yrs.

She sounds alot like you. :lmao:
 

Rosehaven

New Member
another rule

It's two people. There's a lot of non verbal tension. That's not going to be figured out with a stupid rule about who says what at a particular time.
 

Queenofdenile1

Love is Blind
My g/f and I had a discussion last night about, does it matter when in a committed serious relationship for the male to say, "I Love You" first or the female.

Call me old fashion but I feel it should be the male.

Well, I don't think it should matter but if the female says it first..... it's almost a guarantee the man will run like you have just put a gun to his head. You have now "validated" the relationship. If the man says it first my question is "are you drunk :otter: and have no idea what you are saying"? Then if he says "No, I'm not drunk" or "I wasn't drunk last night" you will probably be a bit :confused: at first, but then you start to think "okay, this could work" and you feel some of this :yahoo: and show him a lot of this :love:. Beware....too much of this :love: from the female could be a sign for the man to go "Oh crap, what did I just do?" and the next thing is they start back peddling!!!
 

Beelzebaby666

Has confinement issues..
I told my BF I loved him first.:shrug:

We were just sitting on the bed at his place and I looked at him and said, " Oh my, I think I'm already in love with you."

He's still around :yay:
 

theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

Well-Known Member
Well, I don't think it should matter but if the female says it first..... it's almost a guarantee the man will run like you have just put a gun to his head. You have now "validated" the relationship. If the man says it first my question is "are you drunk and have no idea what you are saying"? Then if he says "No, I'm not drunk" or "I wasn't drunk last night" you will probably be a bit :confused: at first, but then you start to think "okay, this could work" and you feel some of this :yahoo: and show him a lot of this :love:. Beware....too much of this :love: from the female could be a sign for the man to go "Oh crap, what did I just do?" and the next thing is they start back peddling!!!

I told my BF I loved him first.:shrug:

We were just sitting on the bed at his place and I looked at him and said, " Oh my, I think I'm already in love with you."

He's still around :yay:

:ohwell: Maybe it's just me and they run. :shrug:

:yay:
Or you're saying it to the wrong guy :lol:
 
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