i like outgoing personalities types, so if thats confidence...then yeah. I definitely went to school with a lot of snobby stuck up kids, probably became one of them over time. i think I mellowed out a lot when I moved up to SOMD and I actually gave people a chance. Sometimes it was a good thing and sometimes it wasn't. I love being spontaneous, and just doing whatever pops in my head.....i have had to cut that out of my life some because I am a mom, and I want my daughter to have a half way decent adult to look up to. I'll be damned if she looks at her father for guidance.