I got into a back & forth on another site about this. I said women say its their right to choose, but what about the father. I was told the father has a say. I said if the woman says its her choice he has no say. Then I kept being told the father has a say. If the woman decides she doesn't want it, its still only her choice. The father has no say.
I'll admit that I don't get out much anymore, but, like a lot of people here, I've been around long enough to have seen Roe v Wade become "the law of the land." I even took a "wymnz studies" class in college, back in the day, and I've never once, in all the time in between, heard a woman say "the man has a say." Not once.
I have heard women talk about men who have tried to "force" a woman into abortion - tantamount to rape, in those women's minds, but never, not even derisively, have they said that men should have a say. Quite the opposite, in fact.