Who is trying to control you? I was merely pointing out that you contradicted yourself. You can't have the cheese without the whine.
And.. I don't need anyone to agree with me. I can actually stand by my decisions and not fold like a cheap suit when opposing points are made.
BTW... INSECURE (Definition)
1. (of a person) not confident or assured; uncertain and anxious.
antonyms: confident
2. (of a thing) not firm or set; unsafe.
So, after going back and reading the OP and your further comments.... Who exactly is insecure? :shrug:
Mmmm....nope...still not going to agree with you. In fact, you are boring and I'm tired of this banter. Feel free to have the last word.