Dirty Laundry

kvj21075

Meow
i would feel bad for you, but if youre stupid enough to have stayed with him that long.... AND still consider trying to make things work. you deserve it.
 

HazelIrishEyes

BOOYA Grandma!
GET DIVORCED, and with the evidence you have, he has committed Adultry. For your sake I hope he has a good stable career and is loaded. Hit him where it hurts honey! Oh and I'd beat the little tramps a$$!
 

MissBtrayed

New Member
I am past the point of feeling responsible for other peoples' character - 2 people had a choice in this, 2 people did not.

How much evidence exactly does one need to prove adultery? In Maryland, you can prove adultery with circumstantial evidence - by proving disposition and opportunity - is there enough? Anyone been down that road?
 

jetmonkey

New Member
I am past the point of feeling responsible for other peoples' character - 2 people had a choice in this, 2 people did not.

How much evidence exactly does one need to prove adultery? In Maryland, you can prove adultery with circumstantial evidence - by proving disposition and opportunity - is there enough? Anyone been down that road?

Sounds like you are available - want to go to a concert tonight? I'll let you snoop around in my drawers after the show :yay:
 

HazelIrishEyes

BOOYA Grandma!
I am past the point of feeling responsible for other peoples' character - 2 people had a choice in this, 2 people did not.

How much evidence exactly does one need to prove adultery? In Maryland, you can prove adultery with circumstantial evidence - by proving disposition and opportunity - is there enough? Anyone been down that road?

If you have cell phone records as well as proof he has purchased merchandise, such as lingerie and jewelry of which you have never seen, I would say that that would be circumstantial evidence. And if this woman is leaving flirtatious messages on his voicemail you have those too. Good Luck! :huggy:
 
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Kain99

Guest
I am past the point of feeling responsible for other peoples' character - 2 people had a choice in this, 2 people did not.

How much evidence exactly does one need to prove adultery? In Maryland, you can prove adultery with circumstantial evidence - by proving disposition and opportunity - is there enough? Anyone been down that road?

Proving adultery in MD doesn't do anything for you. It will speed up the process of divorce but that's it.
 

greeneyes36

New Member
Divorces based on the Grounds of Adultery in MD will get you into court about 6 months earlier than waiting it out for the one year of separation...(at least in Calvert it's that quick) you can file now, be in court within 6 months... or wait the 1 yr and then it will be another 6months for your court date from the time you actually file for divorce.

You know what you know - it doesnt matter what any of us know or think. Do what is right for YOU. You actually sound like you could be the wife of a guy that works in another office in my building....where everyone but the wife "knows". very sad. however, it's not "her" fault... he's the one that made himself available to her. She didnt have a vow with you, he did. Not all marriages are doomed for divorce - i tried to reconcile and make it work - but it has to be both of you realizing your marriage is doomed...AND both of you working to make it right. He has to be willing to live transparently to rebuild the trust - but apparently, you've had that discussion and attempt and he chose not to do what he said he would. One person cant make a marriage work - i think you know where you need to go from here - i just hope you have peace about it and the support of family and friends like i did when it was my time to make the move. You'll be better off -- in time. Good luck!!
 

Sharon

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Now, where'd I put that llama... :confused:



Oh yeah, here it is...
 

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