Do you lie to your Lover/SO/Spouse?

Do you lie to your lover/SO/Spouse?

  • Yes

    Votes: 7 25.9%
  • No

    Votes: 20 74.1%

  • Total voters
    27
"No, honey... You don't have a big ass but here... I bought you this elliptical."




:mad:


"The cake is beautiful honey... I like how the cake is crumbled into the frosting for that textured look." :coffee:





:mad:
 

migtig

aka Mrs. Giant
"No, honey... You don't have a big ass but here... I bought you this elliptical."




:mad:


"The cake is beautiful honey... I like how the cake is crumbled into the frosting for that textured look." :coffee:





:mad:

:huggy: I once told my husband I liked homemade french fries, but hated cutting them up. So he bought me an attachment for my food processor that cuts french fries for my birthday present. I still haven't used it. There will be NO homemade french fries in my house ever. :mad:

An elliptical is a much nicer gift. :huggy:
 

Cheeky1

Yae warsh wif' wutr
Same here. Agreed 100%.

Except when he cooks something I don't like. It's not his fault I am picky and I will not hurt his feelings after he worked hard cooking for me.

Typically, I hear of situations where folks will lie to make a situation easier for themselves or the other person. However, this situation I see it HARDER to lie than to speak truthfully.

Don't compliment the taste of the food he cooked if you don't like it. Instead, compliment his effort and will to serve.:buddies: You don't need to lie and I hope you don't feel like you have to. That would be a sham.
 

ZARA

Registered User
Typically, I hear of situations where folks will lie to make a situation easier for themselves or the other person. However, this situation I see it HARDER to lie than to speak truthfully.

Don't compliment the taste of the food he cooked if you don't like it. Instead, compliment his effort and will to serve.:buddies: You don't need to lie and I hope you don't feel like you have to. That would be a sham.

It would be an even bigger shame to hurt his feelings and overall just not worth it. He is an amazing man and I can handle a little sufferage now and then. It is a very small price to pay for all that he does for me.

He doesn't cook as often as I do and usually cooks food I love when he does cook. I am an insanely picky eater and that is not his fault. He makes the most amazing cabbage rolls and shepard's pie:drool:

On the other hand, there are times I cook food that he does not like and he does much the same thing I do, eats it, and does not complain. I am (trying) to get better at cooking fish, but I suck at it...royally. He is a trooper and tells me, "not bad," which translates to, "Dear God woman please stop experimenting" LOL

So in the end, what it boils down to is this..

What is more important?
Being 100% honest, which gains no benefits/rewards?
Or keeping the negative comments to yourself and being appreciative that your husband is even willing to cook for you at all?

I prefer to be appreciative for what he does. I don't need to give him a backhanded compliment. Just the compliment.

To me it's like saying, "Not perfect, but it'll do."

"The food sucked, but I appreciate you trying..." Yea, that is a great way to show appreciation.
 

GURPS

INGSOC
PREMO Member
He is a trooper and tells me, "not bad," which translates to, "Dear God woman please stop experimenting" LOL

:cds:

WTF is it with Women ....... quit dicking with the dinner menu

no I do not want to try something new ... if I do, I will suggest hey I saw this recipe on SOMD, it sounds interesting ... dress up your own dinner plate

I am a meat and potato's guy ... keep it simple

:buddies:
 

migtig

aka Mrs. Giant
No Mig, those jeans don't make your ass look fat

:whistle:

But I never ask that question. I do ask different questions - do I look ok for a meeting with the bosses? Am I too tacky to walk out of the house right now? Can you see my underwear? Am I presentable? :lmao:
 

GURPS

INGSOC
PREMO Member
But I never ask that question. I do ask different questions - do I look ok for a meeting with the bosses? Am I too tacky to walk out of the house right now? Can you see my underwear? Am I presentable? :lmao:

:buddies:
 

ZARA

Registered User
But I never ask that question. I do ask different questions - do I look ok for a meeting with the bosses? Am I too tacky to walk out of the house right now? Can you see my underwear? Am I presentable? :lmao:

The one question I ask a lot is,
"Does my make-up look ok?"
or
"Is my make-up even?"
 
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