the second post was a "mind your own business" from someone that should have never said that.
Why not? I thought this was a public forum.
after that was a bunch of nonsense b.s. from forumites that like to jump on the bandwagon and join in on any attack they can.
:shrug:
if i walk up to you and punch you, i should expect that you are going to punch me back, most likely more then once.
If you equate the slight verbal chide of MYOB to a "punch" then I suppose you have a point.
In physical conflict terms, I see it more like a poke on the shoulder, which receives a reaction similar to Ralphie-boy going berserk on the bully in
A Christmas Story.
Anyway, I've said a lot more than I care to on this subject.