Dump him. That behavior is intolerable. He should have at least waited til you got back from the bathroom, but even then it would have been bad. You had a date, right? Hang a note on your door that says "Gone to the club," turn out the lights, and watch Ashlee Simpson.janey83 said:so I went to the bathroom, and I came back and he was gone, so I called his cell and something about his friend called and he'll be back in a few minutes....that's the problem of him coming to visit a college he used to go to...he knows too many people here