I talked with two my my exes yesterday. The first was my first true love. We didn't work out, but have remained friends. He actually attended my wedding. I consider him a very good friend and we talk often.
The second ex was more recent. He's going through a divorce again. Mind you, this is the tramp that he cheated on me with. He needed sympathy.
I had to go there and tell him, real life karma is a biatch. At least he admitted he made a mistake. Apparently he thought I really was too good for him and it scared him.
It was actually nice talking with him and catching up. We laughed about good times we shared. I promised to send some pictures and wished him well. I hold no ill feelings toward him and the hurt has mended. I would never consider getting back together with him, but I can be a friend to him.
I haven't talked to my ex husband in years, and have no desire to do so.
I guess not all exes are a PIA.