Straight and to the point works best for men. Especially
He is not a man. He is a boy.
Men have enough self respect and confidence not to grovel.
No counseling=not willing to try 100%
Too simplistic.
The majority of counseling is a feminine panacea of learning to blame men rather than accept responsibility for one's own failures.
After 2 years I wouldn't wait anymore.
Want to let him know it's over? Send him a copy of a "home video" starring you and some other dude.
Men, here's the shining example of why it's a good idea to avoid marriage and long relationships in general. When things are done, no holds are barred. You may expect character and integrity, but there will be none. You are likely to be considered on the level of dirt.
In my discussions with divorce attorneys, women are often not even looking out for their best interests. They often just want to find a way to screw you over the most even if it's to their own personal detriment in the process.