What makes me mad is when I go to put a tiny piece of candy in his lunch as a treat & he freaks out saying mommy we can't have that. I told him to eat it & tell the teacher to call me. I'm his mother & if I want to let him have a piece of candy after his sandwich & healthy sides, then he can! (P.S. he hardly ever eats sweets!)
Why are you sending the candy when A) he's not supposed to have it at school; and B) he obviously knows that and tells you not to send it?
Is this some power trip thing?