People are people and will adapt to anything. I think if you are going to date someone there should be give and take from both sides. Sometimes it won't be equal, but who cares? thats life folks! If you love someone, you'll look past their wrongs and help them through it. This both goes for male and females. Don't let the past keep comming up, let it go. (Hell, this doesn't even always have to invovle relationships. I think some poeple around here need to learn that one} I think what Steve did was a public service announcement and was just expressing his feelings. He's got a lot of good points, though. It's only advice people. You can either use it or not.