I don't know what to do.

craberta

craberta

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I have a hard time saying no. I am a housewife. I have worked outside the home, but not for long. I lke doing the housewife thing. We sacrificed alot so I could raise our kids 24-7, and hubbs has a hot homecooked meal, and never worried about anything but work. Anyway, whenever someone on our street would find out I didn't work, they automatically asumed that I was the person to dump their kids on. I hate watching other peoples kids. I hate it even more now that mine are all grown up and almost gone. I cannot discipline other peoples kids either. The last thing I want to do is traumatise someones kid, so when they come home and find that their kid has had junk food all day cause they scream for it, and the child has pissed themselves 2 times because they are too shy around me and refuse to go potty for me, and then scream when I have to give them a bath, well don't get miffed at me. I do not discipline, I spoil rotten. I threw out my back lifting a kid, and caught the worst cold...colds... ever from a kid. I had a high fever, deliriouse, and this mom didn't even call to see if I was ok. Anyway, we drink cuss and don't say grace, and are bad influences on toddlers. And if you want to ask someone to watch your kid, give them a graciouse out-or way to say no. I have learned what "so what are you doing tommorow" means. It means, "tell me your doing nothing so you can watch my kid". I wish I did not feel this way, but if there is no money invovedl I don't want to do it. Your adorable child does not like me. Even little kids have prefferences for who they want to spend time with. If I were mrs clause it would be different. I have decided that I don't want grandchildren, not here in this state. I will never babysit again. I think maybe I will go get a job. I want the money for booze tatoos and more motorcycle apparel, and I say thanks for the food once a year, I drink every day, and do not go to church. I am a bad influence. Your child will be saying F sesamee street before you know it. I am sorry, though I am convenient, I am also not the quick-e-mart. Please go to the store 2 minutes from here for a cup of this and a dash of that. I am trying to say no.
 
CRoyal

CRoyal

Infinite Impetus
craberta said:
I have a hard time saying no. I am a housewife. I have worked outside the home, but not for long. I lke doing the housewife thing. We sacrificed alot so I could raise our kids 24-7, and hubbs has a hot homecooked meal, and never worried about anything but work. Anyway, whenever someone on our street would find out I didn't work, they automatically asumed that I was the person to dump their kids on. I hate watching other peoples kids. I hate it even more now that mine are all grown up and almost gone. I cannot discipline other peoples kids either. The last thing I want to do is traumatise someones kid, so when they come home and find that their kid has had junk food all day cause they scream for it, and the child has pissed themselves 2 times because they are too shy around me and refuse to go potty for me, and then scream when I have to give them a bath, well don't get miffed at me. I do not discipline, I spoil rotten. I threw out my back lifting a kid, and caught the worst cold...colds... ever from a kid. I had a high fever, deliriouse, and this mom didn't even call to see if I was ok. Anyway, we drink cuss and don't say grace, and are bad influences on toddlers. And if you want to ask someone to watch your kid, give them a graciouse out-or way to say no. I have learned what "so what are you doing tommorow" means. It means, "tell me your doing nothing so you can watch my kid". I wish I did not feel this way, but if there is no money invovedl I don't want to do it. Your adorable child does not like me. Even little kids have prefferences for who they want to spend time with. If I were mrs clause it would be different. I have decided that I don't want grandchildren, not here in this state. I will never babysit again. I think maybe I will go get a job. I want the money for booze tatoos and more motorcycle apparel, and I say thanks for the food once a year, I drink every day, and do not go to church. I am a bad influence. Your child will be saying F sesamee street before you know it. I am sorry, though I am convenient, I am also not the quick-e-mart. Please go to the store 2 minutes from here for a cup of this and a dash of that. I am trying to say no.
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You and your family > other people's

Just say NO. Who cares if they get huffy, I assure you they will get over it and find another sitter to dump on.
 
Velocity26

Velocity26

New Member
craberta said:
I have a hard time saying no. I am a housewife. I have worked outside the home, but not for long. I lke doing the housewife thing. We sacrificed alot so I could raise our kids 24-7, and hubbs has a hot homecooked meal, and never worried about anything but work. Anyway, whenever someone on our street would find out I didn't work, they automatically asumed that I was the person to dump their kids on. I hate watching other peoples kids. I hate it even more now that mine are all grown up and almost gone. I cannot discipline other peoples kids either. The last thing I want to do is traumatise someones kid, so when they come home and find that their kid has had junk food all day cause they scream for it, and the child has pissed themselves 2 times because they are too shy around me and refuse to go potty for me, and then scream when I have to give them a bath, well don't get miffed at me. I do not discipline, I spoil rotten. I threw out my back lifting a kid, and caught the worst cold...colds... ever from a kid. I had a high fever, deliriouse, and this mom didn't even call to see if I was ok. Anyway, we drink cuss and don't say grace, and are bad influences on toddlers. And if you want to ask someone to watch your kid, give them a graciouse out-or way to say no. I have learned what "so what are you doing tommorow" means. It means, "tell me your doing nothing so you can watch my kid". I wish I did not feel this way, but if there is no money invovedl I don't want to do it. Your adorable child does not like me. Even little kids have prefferences for who they want to spend time with. If I were mrs clause it would be different. I have decided that I don't want grandchildren, not here in this state. I will never babysit again. I think maybe I will go get a job. I want the money for booze tatoos and more motorcycle apparel, and I say thanks for the food once a year, I drink every day, and do not go to church. I am a bad influence. Your child will be saying F sesamee street before you know it. I am sorry, though I am convenient, I am also not the quick-e-mart. Please go to the store 2 minutes from here for a cup of this and a dash of that. I am trying to say no.
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I dont appreciate u letting my child eat all that sugar. all u had to do was say no. damn
 
craberta

craberta

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If I can't say no to mom I sure as hell won't say it to the cute kid! I spoil children, and because I didn't want my kids to be afraid of a movie, I also watch zombie movies with todlers. I have had it with kiddie shows too. I know all the wee sing silly songs and in order to deal with the madness of hearing it over and over again, the words have been changed to adult entertainment level, like "what is this I have in my hand' it's pink and fleshy"etc etc...Oh Yeah..."theres a hole', theres a hole...." You can fill that one as you wish. And "down by the bay...where the marijuana grows...." I figured this mom would notice this about me, but instead I am shushed because the child is a parrot, I don't want to shush dangit, ! It is because I am convenient so maybe if trains me to pray at dinner, and watch kiddie shows, and be more of a disciplinarian...and yeah it is hard to test blood sugar and use insulin and eat a certain amount of carbs with a toddler who knows I am a pushover, and lets the dog out of the house, and I have to run after it, and I am so fat my foot bone is cracked......I gues I wont just say no next time. I am going to calmly explain the reason why I do not babysit. I did it in the first place because she was ill, and for some reason the grandparents/family members couldn't do it. I felt sorry so I said ok, and it was hard on me. Threw out my back, messed up the insulin schedual....
 
Velocity26

Velocity26

New Member
craberta said:
If I can't say no to mom I sure as hell won't say it to the cute kid! I spoil children, and because I didn't want my kids to be afraid of a movie, I also watch zombie movies with todlers. I have had it with kiddie shows too. I know all the wee sing silly songs and in order to deal with the madness of hearing it over and over again, the words have been changed to adult entertainment level, like "what is this I have in my hand' it's pink and fleshy"etc etc...Oh Yeah..."theres a hole', theres a hole...." You can fill that one as you wish. And "down by the bay...where the marijuana grows...." I figured this mom would notice this about me, but instead I am shushed because the child is a parrot, I don't want to shush dangit, ! It is because I am convenient so maybe if trains me to pray at dinner, and watch kiddie shows, and be more of a disciplinarian...and yeah it is hard to test blood sugar and use insulin and eat a certain amount of carbs with a toddler who knows I am a pushover, and lets the dog out of the house, and I have to run after it, and I am so fat my foot bone is cracked......I gues I wont just say no next time. I am going to calmly explain the reason why I do not babysit. I did it in the first place because she was ill, and for some reason the grandparents/family members couldn't do it. I felt sorry so I said ok, and it was hard on me. Threw out my back, messed up the insulin schedual....
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Well thanks to you my kid spazzed out and needs therapy!
 
Geek

Geek

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craberta said:
If I can't say no to mom I sure as hell won't say it to the cute kid! I spoil children, and because I didn't want my kids to be afraid of a movie, I also watch zombie movies with todlers. I have had it with kiddie shows too. I know all the wee sing silly songs and in order to deal with the madness of hearing it over and over again, the words have been changed to adult entertainment level, like "what is this I have in my hand' it's pink and fleshy"etc etc...Oh Yeah..."theres a hole', theres a hole...." You can fill that one as you wish. And "down by the bay...where the marijuana grows...." I figured this mom would notice this about me, but instead I am shushed because the child is a parrot, I don't want to shush dangit, ! It is because I am convenient so maybe if trains me to pray at dinner, and watch kiddie shows, and be more of a disciplinarian...and yeah it is hard to test blood sugar and use insulin and eat a certain amount of carbs with a toddler who knows I am a pushover, and lets the dog out of the house, and I have to run after it, and I am so fat my foot bone is cracked......I gues I wont just say no next time. I am going to calmly explain the reason why I do not babysit. I did it in the first place because she was ill, and for some reason the grandparents/family members couldn't do it. I felt sorry so I said ok, and it was hard on me. Threw out my back, messed up the insulin schedual....
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Did you have to hang a special pumpkin on your door a few days ago?
 
craberta

craberta

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I do have alot of issues, and so why would anyone want to leave a kid with me! I think it is convenience. I wouldn't leave a kid with me, This thread is real, and I left out some other odd things this mom has said and done in order to incourage me to want to be this kids grandma,
 
jaie

jaie

So happy!
craberta said:
If I can't say no to mom I sure as hell won't say it to the cute kid! I spoil children, and because I didn't want my kids to be afraid of a movie, I also watch zombie movies with todlers. I have had it with kiddie shows too. I know all the wee sing silly songs and in order to deal with the madness of hearing it over and over again, the words have been changed to adult entertainment level, like "what is this I have in my hand' it's pink and fleshy"etc etc...Oh Yeah..."theres a hole', theres a hole...." You can fill that one as you wish. And "down by the bay...where the marijuana grows...." I figured this mom would notice this about me, but instead I am shushed because the child is a parrot, I don't want to shush dangit, ! It is because I am convenient so maybe if trains me to pray at dinner, and watch kiddie shows, and be more of a disciplinarian...and yeah it is hard to test blood sugar and use insulin and eat a certain amount of carbs with a toddler who knows I am a pushover, and lets the dog out of the house, and I have to run after it, and I am so fat my foot bone is cracked......I gues I wont just say no next time. I am going to calmly explain the reason why I do not babysit. I did it in the first place because she was ill, and for some reason the grandparents/family members couldn't do it. I felt sorry so I said ok, and it was hard on me. Threw out my back, messed up the insulin schedual....
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:cds:
 
Velocity26

Velocity26

New Member
craberta said:
I do have alot of issues, and so why would anyone want to leave a kid with me! I think it is convenience. I wouldn't leave a kid with me, This thread is real, and I left out some other odd things this mom has said and done in order to incourage me to want to be this kids grandma,
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I said you were a nice person. I don't want you to be the grandma.
 
craberta

craberta

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:cds: This is the perfect excuse to not ever have to babysit again....thank you! I have anxiety! I have it baaaad! And she knows this! She also knows that I no longer take the med that makes it go away! And watching a child with the screaming meemees is the last thing I need. You are a genius, thank you all for the great ideas,...Just say no and if that isn't reason enough for her, I will tell her that this stresses me out, and then if she still tries to encourage me to watch him, I will tell her the truth, I DON'T Want to.
 
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